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Forum: General Social Chat Today, 05:16 PM
Replies: 3
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Posted By Revenge Tour
Re: What Would You Have Done?

The problem with that is he comes over all the time and goes into my garage. He'd figure out I didn't have it any longer. I just wanted to be transparent from the jump I suppose.
Forum: Psychotherapy Today, 04:33 PM
Replies: 166
Views: 6,116
Posted By stopdog
Re: Couch 248: Curiouser and Curiouser

I was thinking about the dates thing and I realized I really don't pay much attention to them. I know about when(the months) my mom passed away and my adored grandmother but I can't remember the...
Forum: Psychotherapy Today, 04:26 PM
Replies: 166
Views: 6,116
Posted By stopdog
Re: Couch 248: Curiouser and Curiouser

Why do you dislike me so? That would be my nightmare
Forum: Psychotherapy Today, 02:55 PM
Replies: 166
Views: 6,116
Posted By Lemoncake
Re: Couch 248: Curiouser and Curiouser

Balanced neural opinion: Considering your anxious attachment style and Dr. T's potential avoidant attachment style, it's understandable that there may be tension and misalignment in your needs for...
Forum: General Q&A Today, 01:39 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 623
Posted By MuddyBoots
Re: Where to go from here?

That's actually a really good idea. I could go anywhere I want, have some housing, get an on campus job, get on the good side of a few professors and have some references, have a degree and open up...
Forum: Psychotherapy Today, 01:35 PM
Replies: 166
Views: 6,116
Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Couch 248: Curiouser and Curiouser

I think we haven't fully discussed it all yet--the specific topic of the fish, yes, but more the bigger topics that have come up from it.

And yes, the self-comfort stuff definitely takes...
Forum: Bipolar Today, 01:30 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 83
Posted By HALLIEBETH87
Derby

Happy derby day!!! I drew endlesslly as my horse for the pot at work!!

Talk derby to me!
Forum: Women-Focused Support Today, 12:50 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 135
Posted By divine1966
Re: High sex drive?

Are you in your 20s? 30s? I was that way when I was younger. I think it’s perfectly normal. It changes with age. I understand no privacy but where are you seeing your partner? You mentioned having...
Forum: Psychotherapy Today, 12:43 PM
Replies: 166
Views: 6,116
Posted By stopdog
Re: Couch 248: Curiouser and Curiouser

So - what else then do you want from him? He discussed it - where do you go next? From here it looks like you still want him to do something else.

Keep practicing the self comfort techniques-...
Forum: Bipolar Today, 12:23 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 208
Posted By MuddyBoots
Re: I've been told I'm like never satisfied or something like that

"Never satisfied"

More like know there's better out there.
Forum: Psychotherapy Today, 11:20 AM
Replies: 166
Views: 6,116
Posted By unaluna
Re: Couch 248: Curiouser and Curiouser

Stopdog, we will make a working therapist out of you yet.

And comrademoomoo, :goodpost: good post, both of you.

LT - I think we are just trying to get you to see the subtle differences in...
Forum: Psychotherapy Today, 11:14 AM
Replies: 166
Views: 6,116
Posted By stopdog
Re: Couch 248: Curiouser and Curiouser

I have not seen where you are talking about the pain of the loss - the focus I have read about here is on getting him to act differently - not you wanting to talk about your fish connection. That is...
Forum: Psychotherapy Today, 11:13 AM
Replies: 166
Views: 6,116
Posted By unaluna
Re: Couch 248: Curiouser and Curiouser

But thats exactly what youve said. Here, if not yet there. Your not talking about the hurt of his rejection, your talking about losing the power
struggle. But by making it about the power...
Forum: Bipolar Today, 10:58 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 174
Posted By Blueberrybook
wishing like the end of my natural life would just hurry up (triggering maybe?)

Not sure if this is a trigger, but just in case:

I'm 46, and I've been dealing with mental health issues since I was 20. On the gamut of psych meds since then. In and out of therapy. I don't...
Forum: Psychotherapy Today, 10:55 AM
Replies: 166
Views: 6,116
Posted By comrademoomoo
Re: Couch 248: Curiouser and Curiouser

Wanting for her therapist to do an act is exactly what needs to be looked at though. The desire to control is perfectly acceptable (the realisation of it, not always), but this is exactly where he...
Forum: Psychotherapy Today, 10:45 AM
Replies: 166
Views: 6,116
Posted By stopdog
Re: Couch 248: Curiouser and Curiouser

I don't think this is lining up. I completely understand the guy not wanting other people's stuff in his office. I agree with him on that. Even people I love don't get to decorate my house.
If you...
Forum: Psychotherapy Today, 10:41 AM
Replies: 166
Views: 6,116
Posted By comrademoomoo
Re: Couch 248: Curiouser and Curiouser

I mean, I like to think that I can swim the channel or write a great a novel or enjoy a glass of wine without drinking a bottle or relax in other people's company. Doesn't mean that translates into...
Forum: Psychotherapy Today, 10:00 AM
Replies: 166
Views: 6,116
Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Couch 248: Curiouser and Curiouser

This is a good point. Maybe some of this is my suppressing needs for years to appease him and stay on his good side. And it's coming to a head with the fish, so to speak. Like a cresting wave in the...
Forum: Steps to Better Self-Esteem Today, 09:59 AM
Replies: 684
Views: 49,074
Posted By Catsrock
Forum: General Social Chat Today, 09:53 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 156
Posted By Albatross2008
Re: Differences in mindset once you're not poor anymore

Not always gravitating toward the cheapest of everything. Eating beef stew instead of ramen noodles. Wiping your nose with an actual tissue instead of toilet paper. Washing your hair with shampoo...
Forum: Psychotherapy Today, 09:16 AM
Replies: 166
Views: 6,116
Posted By atisketatasket
Re: Couch 248: Curiouser and Curiouser

This is true. But there’s really only one sure solution: find a therapist you don’t feel you have to be small with.



Actually, beyond natural inclination, it may depend on the person you’re...
Forum: Psychotherapy Today, 09:02 AM
Replies: 166
Views: 6,116
Posted By LostOnTheTrail
Re: Couch 248: Curiouser and Curiouser

Good point, Comrade.

The therapeutic relationship is hardly the space where one should make oneself smaller to acquiesce to the therapist's process.
Forum: Psychotherapy Today, 08:55 AM
Replies: 166
Views: 6,116
Posted By comrademoomoo
Re: Couch 248: Curiouser and Curiouser

I think it's difficult to identify what is in the territory of an ultimatum and what is confirmation of incompatibility. X years don't always mean much if over that time you have been suppressing...
Forum: General Social Chat Today, 08:54 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 173
Posted By lizardlady
Re: How not to anger the locals

Oh lordy, I live in Florida where we are swarmed be tourists! I could probably rant on for pages about the annoying things them do.

First off, don't talk about how much better whatever is where...
Forum: Psychotherapy Today, 08:38 AM
Replies: 166
Views: 6,116
Posted By unaluna
Re: Couch 248: Curiouser and Curiouser

Why would you give your T an ultimatum? Do this one thing or else? Don't the past x years mean anything? I don't get it. Has he offered you an ultimatum? If he did, what would it be? YKWIM.
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