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Honestly LT I do not want to know what "Dr. T" thinks of me, but thanks for making sure I was included there. Christ. Sorry for caring about your well-being and wanting you to have a competent therapist. I won't bother caring anymore.
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Honestly LT I do not want to know what "Dr. T" thinks of me, but thanks for making sure I was included there. Christ. Sorry for caring about your well-being and wanting you to have a competent therapist. I won't bother caring anymore.

Uh, I intentionally didn't identify anyone in there--and you've personally admitted that you only believe in humanistic therapy. So I don't see why that's any strange thing or surprising thing if he disagrees with it, because he's not a humanist? Also you could have just messaged me instead of including it on here. This doesn't mean I don't care about you or appreciate you caring about me--but if that's what you want to believe, then fine.
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I think it was extremely rude of you to talk about myself and another forum member like that where you know we will see it. You clearly wanted us to.

For the record, I have not "personally admitted that [I] only "believe in" humanistic therapy" at all, I believe that all the various mainstream modalities have their place, can benefit various people at various times for various issues, and can also be used in an integrative way very effectively (this probably doesn't include your T, since he doesn't have any theoretical base or structure to his work at all and basically just does whatever he feels like). I work in a humanistic way and that is where my heart is. But I love that you want to pretend that's the only reason I think your therapist is s**t. So go ahead, put it down to that if it makes you feel better.
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Fine, I'll delete that section.
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Bit late for that isn't it?
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Lol look whose on her high horse again

Humanistic is your heart? Yet my t wasn't allowed to be human with me, maybe a career change would help everyone lol

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Bit late for that isn't it?

Yes, I know you have many reasons for disliking my T, I was just responding to what I had put in the post that you were reacting to. I have many reasons for liking him, and he's helping me.


ETA I deleted that section (I left something in general about friendships, but that's an overarching thing I find I do with many friends, including people from high school, and I realized it was a pattern, so I think it's acceptable to leave that in).

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What do you expect to happen when you detail your therapy like an open wound in order that a bunch of morons (I include myself in that bunch) can gawp at it? People will form opinions, comment, upset you, be partial, be hurt, be hurtful: be the messy morons which we all are.

Boundaries keep things in as well as out. I think the amount of detail you provide, and the subsequent level of involvement it invites from strangers, is a good example of unboundaried interactions. I know we often disagree, but in these instances, your vulnerability is palpable and it makes me sad and uncomfortable.
 
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What do you expect to happen when you detail your therapy like an open wound in order that a bunch of morons (I include myself in that bunch) can gawp at it? People will form opinions, comment, upset you, be partial, be hurt, be hurtful: be the messy morons which we all are.

Boundaries keep things in as well as out. I think the amount of detail you provide, and the subsequent level of involvement it invites from strangers, is a good example of unboundaried interactions. I know we often disagree, but in these instances, your vulnerability is palpable and it makes me sad and uncomfortable.

I'm sorry that my openness and vulnerability make you uncomfortable. If so, then don't read my posts. I know I've benefited from other people being open and vulnerable on here and that some people like reading what I write. If people have an issue with me, I'm sorry.
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