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Default Jan 06, 2019 at 09:21 PM
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Hello all- I recently wet my pants during therapy without even realizing it until it happened. Very embarrassing. Was wondering if anybody else had similar experiences with soiling, wetting, vomitting,. etc? to cheer me up?

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Default Jan 07, 2019 at 09:59 PM
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Welcome to the forum ! I've probably coughed and passed wind a few times , embarrassing things happen , but they do happen. I do recall someone here saying they vomited into their therapist's wastepaper basket , so I hope that will cheer you up !

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Default Jan 07, 2019 at 10:03 PM
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I would have never returned if so. You are brave for not walking out and quitting

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Default Jan 07, 2019 at 10:13 PM
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I'm so sorry that happened. Is it related to being diabetic? I'm sure therapists deal with this stuff somewhat regularly, and your T probably understands your medical issues.
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Default Jan 07, 2019 at 10:44 PM
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I'm sorry that happened to you. Diabetes sucks!
A couple of times I have been afraid to move, for fear that I will fart. I suck in my gut, hold my butt-cheeks together, and try my hardest not to waddle out the door.

It occurs to me that the anu$ is the smartest muscle in the body. It has to express gas while retaining liquid and solid, it has to know whether your pants are up or down, and it has to know whether you are alone or with company. It is one smart muscle!

There, feel better now?

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Default Jan 07, 2019 at 10:45 PM
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At least you didn't **** yourself?
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Default Jan 08, 2019 at 03:35 AM
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t caught me trying to pick a booger out of my nose in group. he motioned for me to put it on my sleeve!! I was like what!!!!

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also one time I was withdrawing and t and I went for a walk.. it was summer and hot. I had to sit down for a min cuz I was covered in sweat and felt like crap. we went back and t made a cold rag for me to put on my forehead lol

I've also barfed in front of t

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Default Jan 08, 2019 at 07:13 AM
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Haha I sometimes have to really struggle not to fart in front of people in general! I had a period of a few years when my farts bothered me LOL
I don't know why but the issue has recently disappeared on its own

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My mother has diabetes and she is frequently running off to the bathroom.As a medical student still in training, I've also seen this with a few patients.Sometimes it's not possible to control your body.

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I'd open the window and jump out if this happened to me 😂
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I haven’t had an accident (yet), but I have very heavy periods and my T has white fabric armchairs. Naturally, I’m paranoid. Could be a matter of time.
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I haven’t had an accident (yet), but I have very heavy periods and my T has white fabric armchairs. Naturally, I’m paranoid. Could be a matter of time.
Yikes, that would be awful. Hopefully you don't have that experience ever.

Have you ever discussed this fear with him? I know it's awkward but honestly... mine even knew when I was having mine.... once I started talking about it, and saw how unphased he was, it became easier to bring up, even as a joke so he kinda figured things out and basically knew. Was weirdly comforting

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I'm sorry that happened to you. Diabetes sucks!
A couple of times I have been afraid to move, for fear that I will fart. I suck in my gut, hold my butt-cheeks together, and try my hardest not to waddle out the door.

It occurs to me that the anu$ is the smartest muscle in the body. It has to express gas while retaining liquid and solid, it has to know whether your pants are up or down, and it has to know whether you are alone or with company. It is one smart muscle!

There, feel better now?

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Yikes, that would be awful. Hopefully you don't have that experience ever.

Have you ever discussed this fear with him? I know it's awkward but honestly... mine even knew when I was having mine.... once I started talking about it, and saw how unphased he was, it became easier to bring up, even as a joke so he kinda figured things out and basically knew. Was weirdly comforting
Oh god I don’t think I can bring that up with him ahah. I’m sure he’d be unphased but still. How did you go about it?
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Oh god I don’t think I can bring that up with him ahah. I’m sure he’d be unlphases but still. How did you go about it?
Initially it kinda just came out. In my mind, I was mortified for ages to even consider anything like it so that's why it took so long but when we got to discussing my surgery, which is related to periods and such...I just started taking casually about it and was like, oh wait, he's just sitting there normal.... lol... and he seemed really sad for me and was kind about it all, so after that initial convo, I was so comfortable with him as it was, that it just became normal seeming to bring up...like I would with a female friend or something.

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Default Jan 08, 2019 at 09:32 AM
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I've also mentioned my period to my T. Yes, it felt weird at first but it was absolutely OK no big deal :-) I said o was irritable because I was on my period or I mentioned PMS.

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Default Jan 08, 2019 at 09:42 AM
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My T knows I have bladder issues
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and while what you have described hasn't happened to me, I do sometimes go to the toilet mid session and he's totally understanding of that. I'm sure your T didn't think anything of it.
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Default Jan 08, 2019 at 10:05 AM
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The thing about periods is, while male T's haven't personally experienced them, they are aware of it happening to females. So it's not like it's gonna shock them and make them faint or anything. If your male T has a wife or ever had a GF, they for sure have been around women going through it. Heck, even female family members, although less likely to be openly aware of that.

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Default Jan 08, 2019 at 10:07 AM
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There have been a few times i have come very close to vomiting or #### my pants but luckly I have not yet so embarrassing Hugs. Im sure your t understands allot and they see it quite allot
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