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Old 10-23-2018, 10:34 AM #1
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Default Dear T:I Really Need to Tell you Something... Part XXXVI

Anything you would like to say to your T, big or small - feel free to post it here.
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I miss you terribly. And seeing you won't help.
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The 5th still seems so far away.
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I was supposed to be feeling super anxious about seeing you - but a good anxiety. Now I'm blasting Avril Lavigne's When You're Gone.

The part where she sings 'The words I need to hear to always get through the day and make it okay, I miss you' make so much sense right now.
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I was supposed to be feeling super anxious about seeing you - but a good anxiety. Now I'm blasting Avril Lavigne's When You're Gone.

The part where she sings 'The words I need to hear to always get through the day and make it okay, I miss you' make so much sense right now.
I love Avril Lavigne.
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I miss you terribly. And seeing you won't help.
That profoundly states the hardest part of therapy. It is like being homesick while you are home.
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Dear T,
I find that the dynamic between coworkers at work to be a bit odd. It's amazing how people know what other people do/did. I found someone I thought I could vent to but I have decided it's not worth it. It's not like I have to talk negatively, but it sometimes feels good to be able to share my frustrations. I would rather be self-contained and alone although I sometimes enjoy talking to other people. I was reading about Papau New Guinea with my students which is north of where you are/were. It made me think of you on your trip.
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Dear T,

Should I find a grief therapist? Or should I just stick it out on my own? I think these feelings are probably normal, and I'll probably be okay on my own. But sometimes it hurts so much, and I just want some help. I do feel that grief is a private thing, something I should endure alone.

I love you and miss you.

ETA: I also don't want anyone else to intrude on our relationship, and I feel like any other T, at this point, would be intruding (except your friend, but he can't see me for totally legitimate reasons).
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Default Dear T:I Really Need to Tell you Something... Part XXXVI

You'd be proud of me.

I realized why I didn't get any colonies from my transformation, and it's because I made a stupid mistake and now I'm set back a day and I'm not going to be able to leave lab until after midnight tonight.
And it was a silly mistake. I did steps A through D but then accidentally used the stuff from step C to do step E.

But I didn't beat myself up over it like I normally would. I mean, I wrote "So I'm and idiot and [explanation of what the mistake was], ugh" in my lab notebook, but it was in an annoyed way, not a self loathing way.
Honestly I'm a bit relieved to have an explanation. If it still doesn't work and I can't figure out why that means troubleshooting with a million variables.

Still not going to say nice things to myself though... Maybe if I actually have transformants tomorrow.
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Are you sure you should tell me about your other clients? I don't think so. Now I'm jealous.
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