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Dear T,
Of course, after saying on here that you're rarely in my dreams, you show up in one last night, when I'm seeing you at 9:30 this morning. We were at a party, and you put your arm around me, like to greet me, and it was nice. And then touched my shoulder and said, "Oh good, you're not cold" (???). Debating whether to tell you about that or not...
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Dear T,
Of course, after saying on here that you're rarely in my dreams, you show up in one last night, when I'm seeing you at 9:30 this morning. We were at a party, and you put your arm around me, like to greet me, and it was nice. And then touched my shoulder and said, "Oh good, you're not cold" (???). Debating whether to tell you about that or not...
Love,
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You do Sunday sessions now? I didn't realize T's even met clients on Sundays. Interesting.

I always talked about my dreams to T, except for the one that I know would have scared him.... and he didn't seem phased.... I guess it depends how important you think it is to share. Might be more important issues to discuss....
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Had a dream about you last night. I was in a house that I know wasnt really your house but in the dream it was. It was after your death and I was going through all the rooms looking for you but knowing you weren't there. It was very safe and soothing. The last room was my mom's room. I was confused and then woke up. Trying to figure out if there is a meaning. I wonder if it had anything to do with me insisting you didn't play a maternal roll for me. Aunt or something but never a mom. I had a great mom. Since your passing I have come to realize you were like a mom to me in some ways. It is all so confusing and feels like it is a dishonor to my mom.
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You do Sunday sessions now? I didn't realize T's even met clients on Sundays. Interesting.

I always talked about my dreams to T, except for the one that I know would have scared him.... and he didn't seem phased.... I guess it depends how important you think it is to share. Might be more important issues to discuss....

Just during the holidays--like last week he wasn't in on Monday or Tuesday due to Christmas. This week he's in tomorrow but didn't really want to have session right before going out with friends for New Year's Eve. And he does see some clients on Sundays during the school year since he works some with teens.
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You tell me I'm supposed to learn how to deal with people who are antisocial, psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissists and voyeurs!! Maybe there are more....


Are you for real???


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Hello, hello.

Admit it you're kinda shocked- 12 days in and I haven't contacted you yet.
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Dear T,
Of course, after saying on here that you're rarely in my dreams, you show up in one last night, when I'm seeing you at 9:30 this morning. We were at a party, and you put your arm around me, like to greet me, and it was nice. And then touched my shoulder and said, "Oh good, you're not cold" (???). Debating whether to tell you about that or not...
Love,
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LT it's up to you to disclose whatever you feel comfortable with, but what do you think holds you back from telling him?
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I always talked about my dreams to T, except for the one that I know would have scared him.... and he didn't seem phased.... I guess it depends how important you think it is to share. Might be more important issues to discuss....
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It's hard to look on these sites sometimes and see all the other ts that stick it out with there clients. I know stuff happens in life, but still some things only really seem to happen to me. That's probably why I end up with abandonment issues
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It's hard to look on these sites sometimes and see all the other ts that stick it out with there clients. I know stuff happens in life, but still some things only really seem to happen to me. That's probably why I end up with abandonment issues
Yep, I find myself reading a lot less posts here lately, it's just too hard. I feel hated and like I messed up... being punished for being me.

It's **** but I get it, hang in there
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