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Grand Member
Member Since Aug 2017
Location: United States
Posts: 950
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#501
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Is your T not talking to you because you used again? FWIW, I know this is an approach that's popular with chemical dependency people--the idea that you have to threaten a person's social connections to get them to stop using. I think this approach is outdated and contrary to addiction research. I'm sorry your T isn't talking to you. |
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#502
I still can't believe all of these memories and parts were out of my awareness for so long. When does it ever stop. It felt good that you were sweet and reassuring towards the end; that was a surprise.
After hearing about your holiday, my afterthoughts keep gravitating to my jealousy for your wife. What you told me about her reminds me of how I am when I was happier. I hardly ever am embarrassed to tell you anything, but for some reason, am embarrassed about this. I will still tell you next time we meet. I still want to be your wife. ps you're still so cute |
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Jan 2014
Location: n/a
Posts: 4,819
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#503
Ugh. I stupidly watched a show that has a tendency to trigger my PTSD. I don't know why I did it other than it is an episode I saw before and thought it was safe. I was wrong. Then your voice came into my head asking why I watched it. I have no idea why. Then as soon as it ended the commercial came in where the lady fell down the stairs bead first and is screaming for help. I hate that commercial because it makes me have horrible images of your fall. Emdr T will not understand so no point mentioning it
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Poohbah
Member Since Oct 2018
Location: Canada
Posts: 1,073
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#504
I have something really difficult to tell you tomorrow. I purposely didn't email it to you, because I've decided that working through the emotions surrounding it is a critical part of the therapy. I can't wait to see you.
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Comfy Sedation
Member Since Sep 2012
Location: the woods
Posts: 19,301
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#505
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Magnate
Member Since Apr 2018
Location: UK
Posts: 2,160
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#506
I miiiiiisss yooooou
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Anonymous56789, ChickenNoodleSoup, junkDNA, LonesomeTonight, Out There, SlumberKitty
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Poohbah
Member Since Mar 2018
Location: CA
Posts: 1,009
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#507
I'm at the point where the right thing feels like the wrong thing and the wrong thing feels like the right thing.
This is why seeing you twice a week has made such a difference. It helps me steer back in the right direction before I get too far off track. 6 more days. |
Echos Myron redux, LonesomeTonight, Out There, SlumberKitty
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#508
...and please don't use the phrase "unrequited love" when I discuss with you. I hate it when you say that!!
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Echos Myron redux, LonesomeTonight, Out There, SlumberKitty
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Legendary
Member Since Oct 2015
Location: England
Posts: 11,355
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#509
I know this is healing , but it sure doesn't feel like it right now ....
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#510
L, I finished your poem tonite. Wish I'd have been able to write it sooner.
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Poohbah
Member Since Jul 2017
Location: Somewhere
Posts: 1,019
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#511
It has been nice to be off for this week and some of next week. Work has been getting better. I feel somewhat normal. I appreciate that you helped me through all of this.
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Poohbah
Member Since Mar 2018
Location: CA
Posts: 1,009
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#512
I'm angry about the abandonment thing. Again.
Rationally I understand that you taking a few weeks off isn't abandonment. But I'm alone with my feelings and it hurts and I need you and you're not here. And the last session was a lot of emotional intensity and I'm feeling and processing so many things. And I'm having to do it alone. What were you thinking?? And I can't accept the compassion and emotional intimacy, so now I'm going to be angry at you instead of vulnerable. I need to push you away. But instead of being able to talk it over before I can completely convince myself of these awful things, I'm stuck with these awful thoughts that feel more and more believable every day. |
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Jun 2018
Location: Somewhere
Posts: 3,355
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#513
I am so angry. I don't even know why or who I'm mad at.
Well, actually, right now I'm mad at C because I want to go to the session on Monday. I feel like confronting you. About what? I don't know; I haven't come up with a pretense yet. |
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Grand Member
Member Since Aug 2017
Location: United States
Posts: 950
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#514
Today, while driving to lunch, I suddenly had a mental image of myself wrapping my arms around you and kissing you on the cheek. I was thinking how I wished you had accepted the Christmas present I gave you last year. I just wanted you to take your husband to that restaurant. I thought it'd be fun.
Anyway, I started crying. When I got to the place where I was meeting my co-workers for lunch, one of them was standing outside as I pulled into the parking lot. I don't know if he saw the tears on my face. But I liked those tears. The pain, the longing, they make me feel closer to you. I still miss you. |
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
Posts: 9,692
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#515
I'm feeling better today. You come back in only 10 days!
I leave the day after tomorrow. Then it's back to studying. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Magnate
Member Since Apr 2018
Location: UK
Posts: 2,160
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#516
You undercharge. Like, a lot.
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Veteran Member
Member Since Jan 2018
Location: Somewhere in a cloud
Posts: 719
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#517
I can't stand anything anymore. I hate this period.
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Most Dangerous
Member Since Feb 2017
Location: UK
Posts: 2,920
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#518
I miss you, R, and I miss how much I missed you this time last year. I don't miss M very much at all.
This sucks. I wonder if you're going off somewhere to take pictures of lizards. |
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Member Since Nov 2017
Location: UK
Posts: 379
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#519
I'm ill so this might be feverish, medicated nonsense, but I'm so sad, I feel so alone. So much seems to be happening and half of it I haven't even been able to tell u.
So I'm laying here cos I can't do much else, and I'm thinking about how different it was this time last year. We were on a break then aswell, but I felt secure with u and happy with how this was going, I felt close and that I had u on my side and with u there I could accomplish life, roll on a year, u leaving me, alone, no contact, nothing! Telling me to reach to another T for support, how do I even do that. Firstly the relationship with u took many months to form, and secondly I don't trust in therapy or therapists anymore cos look where that's got me. |
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Aug 2017
Location: A house
Posts: 4,412
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#520
I miss you so much. Do you miss me like you said you would? I'm gonna go with no.
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