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Default Dec 13, 2018 at 12:09 PM
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Honestly, i wont even choose a movie or a restaurant, even if given a choice between two. I always choose the wrong one. Its the other persons fault.

On my own, im FINE and i have a great time.
Same with me when I'm picking which checkout to go to, but you live and learn. Take me on a date and I'll pick.


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Default Dec 13, 2018 at 12:10 PM
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T told me to email her this week after I'd requested info about a grad program (she wanted to make sure I followed through lol). So i just emailed her what I found out yesterday about getting my cumulative undergrad GPA up to 3.0 before I apply. I wonder if she'll respond or not or even remember telling me to email her. Hmm. Time will tell.
 
 
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Default Dec 13, 2018 at 12:10 PM
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I'm stupidly happy. I did my first cannulation today at stupid o'clock with a nurse who was really nice and I passed my pharmacology test too, which I was actually worried about. Because I'm a dork I'm gonna go to the hospital on sunday because I want extra OR time with our surgeon.
Great Job Lemoncake!!!! So happy for you!
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Default Dec 13, 2018 at 12:10 PM
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Got hit on today, at my new job, on my first day, by a co worker LOL.

So funny, that never happens to me. Made me giggle.

Which is good I suppose, seeing as hell day is tomorrow
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I'm thinking of you today.


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Default Dec 13, 2018 at 12:11 PM
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You've done it before and you will do it again.

When you weren't here I missed having updates about your cooking. You would have been the first person I was going to ask - oh what to do with my limpy tomatoes?
Anytime my h's cherry tomatos got all wrinkly I would blanch them and then add to my lentils. Yum.
Oh I haven't done the Brussels sprouts yet. Tomorrow cuz I'm off work again. Had to use up pto or lose it.
 
 
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Default Dec 13, 2018 at 12:13 PM
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I need to stop reading the news on this case especially before bed. But ugh, it's basically family so how do I just ignore it?!
It will be hard but perhaps change your routine? Don't turn on the TV at all or just the news channels, no newspapers either. I have this program on my laptop called coldturkey which basically will block set websites for a period of time.

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Default Dec 13, 2018 at 12:15 PM
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My therapist asked today if I was open to going to a grief group. I told him yes. I don't know if he means like a therapist led group or just a support group. Has anyone gone to one? Did it help?
I haven't tried either but perhaps try both and see which one suits you better?

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Default Dec 13, 2018 at 12:15 PM
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I totally get the "stupid happy" thing cuz I feel that way today too!
 
 
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Default Dec 13, 2018 at 12:20 PM
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Thats great! My doctor gave me THREE times that to lose that amount. I think he knows im resistant and old. But this gives me hope!
Una it's honestly posssible.The hardest thing is thinking of it as a whole set which can get intimidating. Break it down into small bites (see what I did there ) and aim for 1 pound or even half a pound a week.All progress is progress! No point in being soooo strict if your can't stick to it for more than 3 days.

To infinity and PARADIGM shift! (Okay I'll stop drinking now).

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Default Dec 13, 2018 at 12:24 PM
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So if I cry in response to what's basically a scheduling email, with the addition of a pleasantry, "Hope you've had an OK couple of days," that's probably a sign I'm not in a very good place...Seeing T tomorrow. (Normally, he'd just say "confirmed" possibly "confirmed, see you tomorrow.")
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Default Dec 13, 2018 at 12:30 PM
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I totally get the "stupid happy" thing cuz I feel that way today too!


I really don't know what it is exactly but I've been this way for the past two days and it's like magic. Apart from when I'm acting out and being loopy. I've noticed that I'm actually having more up days.

I feel awesome sauce and someone else also commented on it today. I'm just purely happy- it's like I don't have the heaviness of my depression. I'm happy and grateful to be alive. I feel like everything is really going to be okay and I never thought I'd ever think that.

It's like I have the song love is the air playing in my head. I want to tell everyone that I love them and how much they mean to me.

(I still have my exam on tuesday)

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Default Dec 13, 2018 at 12:33 PM
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Anytime my h's cherry tomatos got all wrinkly I would blanch them and then add to my lentils. Yum.
Oh I haven't done the Brussels sprouts yet. Tomorrow cuz I'm off work again. Had to use up pto or lose it.
The non cook in me would ask but what does blanch mean?!?

Can I please come overrrrrrrrrr for dinner? I like the sound of grilled brussel sprouts, but only had boiled ones too when I was younger. My friend Jo gave me the book "deliciously ella with friends" but I've never done anything other than look at the pictures.

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Default Dec 13, 2018 at 12:37 PM
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I got groceries delivered. The girl (to distinguish her from SD's the woman, or when its the guy ) got me humongous cans of chicken instead of the tiny ones i had on my list. She must be in cahoots with my GP who told me to watch the carbs. i will take it as the universe is trying to help me along in my new paradigm "I've got a new paradigm!"
This made me giggle more than it should. There's only one "THE WOMAN".

Hmmm chicken in a can- I can't picture it for some reason. Don't you have a box to tick that says you don't want substitutions?

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The non cook in me would ask but what does blanch mean?!?

Can I please come overrrrrrrrrr for dinner? I like the sound of grilled brussel sprouts, but only had boiled ones too when I was younger. My friend Jo gave me the book "deliciously ella with friends" but I've never done anything other than look at the pictures.
*sets place for Lemoncake at my table*

I'm making my lentils too of course.
 
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What's everybody doing? I'm at work but I'm bored at the moment. I just got through paying some bills, doing some invoices, and tracking some sales. Kit.
I lemoncake the first of my name am undertaking my duties as protector of the realm.

But also thinking about food and if I should really buy that 400g block of cambozola cheese under the pretense of taking it home as a gift, when we know that it might somehow disappear along the journey....

But seriously I think I'm in love.

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*sets place for Lemoncake at my table*

I'm making my lentils too of course.
That honestly kinda makes me feel all specialz on the inside.

I picture my Artie in Arizona or Texas. I need to plan my roadtrip. Can my fiancé Niles come too?

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This made me giggle more than it should. There's only one "THE WOMAN".

Hmmm chicken in a can- I can't picture it for some reason. Don't you have a box to tick that says you don't want substitutions?
She did text me. She just said they were doubles, not triples, she didnt specify size. She also got me the family size kale salad in a bag - i think she just cant imagine somebody eating alone!

Its pretty much like tuna in a can. Chunked white meat in salty water.

I got tickets (well, one vip) for Randy Rainbow, the satirist. Yippee! Cant wait! But its in the new year.
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I never heard of Randy rainbow.
 
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Looks like R is not going to reply to my email. Now I feel even more ashamed of it. I should know better.
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