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Thanks lemoncake. I don't know, he hasn't said. I'm trying to let him have his space and stuff and haven't asked yet. I need to invite him already but don't want to seem like I'm pressuring him. New waters, and all....
Artie you've got this!

For me Christmas has always just been about the kids (my siblings!), but what do you want to do this year?

Send him photos just casually asking about recipes and I think he will invite himself over. xD
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Thanks Art. I guess it just feels like this is a rupture we've had a zillion times before, and if he still doesn't get it, will he ever?
I need to read your other ITS post, but based on what I've previously read about your relationship with T. I think you will also get through this too.

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Congrats, Lemoncake, on your test scores! The process of becoming a doctor sounds really stressful. I don't know how you and chihirochild do it.
Thank you NP! Sometimes I really don't know either. It honestly helps that I have R.

How was your group team building event?
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Well at least the peaches have been helping me poop. And it FEELS like im eating something healthy.


I was teasin'. Peaches are my favorite fruit I think there's only so many cookies you can eat before you run out of milk. I luuuurve buying them when they're on sale.
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I have to go out but donít really feel like being a people person today. Itís cold. I didnít sleep well last night. Old diabetic dog came down this morning, drank her weight in water, then vomited. I guess I have to call the vet to see what that means. We got new dog a crate and old dog tried to go near it last night and new dog almost attacked her-I was there to intervene-luckily. Itís really the only time he showed aggression towards her since heís been here so hopefully that was just a one and done for him to say ďHey-this is my spaceĒ Heís so much bigger than her. Old dog is a 15lb rat terrier so he could easily hurt her if he wanted to but I donít think he wants to.
I had a hair appointment for 6:15 tonight that I canceled. I just donít feel like physically being around people today. Plus itís a week before Christmas and I need the money to purchase my final 2 gift cards.


I hope you have a good night tonight. It's okay to stay in and not be a people person.

Did you manage to talk to the vet?
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Please could somebody tell me that it's OK to abandon a project if you've tried it four times, and it hasn't worked out?
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It's okay to abandon a project. Kit
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Hooray for Christmas Sugar Cookies that my Mom made last night for me to bring to work! Kit
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Thank you NP! Sometimes I really don't know either. It honestly helps that I have R.

How was your group team building event?
It was okay. I only cried once and I don't think anyone noticed. And I had a good phone call afterwards with my therapist. The team building activity was to decorate gingerbread houses in teams of 3, which isn't a terrible idea, except I am NOT in the Christmas spirit this year and the combo of gingerbread houses and Christmas music was too much for me.
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It was okay. I only cried once and I don't think anyone noticed. And I had a good phone call afterwards with my therapist. The team building activity was to decorate gingerbread houses in teams of 3, which isn't a terrible idea, except I am NOT in the Christmas spirit this year and the combo of gingerbread houses and Christmas music was too much for me.


I'm sorry it was a trigger for you. It's perfectly okay to not be in the Christmas spirit.

I'm glad T was there was there for you? Did T come up with was to suport you whilst he's away?
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