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Default Dec 14, 2018 at 02:31 PM
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I am doing ok, but suddenly got really sad. I think knowing his phone is gone now, and I have to delete him from my phone. Knowing he sent his last text to me and it was just meh.

I am sad thinking about his co workers getting to spend the day with him on his last day. It's sunny and warm and I wish so bad we could walk today. So it's getting tough.
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Default Dec 14, 2018 at 05:40 PM
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It's so insanely hard. I keep wondering when my next session is and keep regretting things I didn't say or ask him. I told him I loved him on Monday and in text on Thur but not when we hugged goodbye Thurs, what a jerk i am.

2 years is so long, what a cruel thing to do to people. I can't see his face or hear his laugh or have any hope of contact for 24 months. Sigh....

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Default Dec 15, 2018 at 01:22 AM
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I understand it must be terribly hard! But it sounds you are doing amazingly well in the middle of it keeping busy, making plans and also letting yourself be sad. Every pain changes and loses its sharpest edges over time.
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