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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 03:39 PM
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I'm so sorry Jersey Much love for you and your dog and if you need a shoulder to cry on my inbox is there if you need
 

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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 03:41 PM
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It's not your fault for not dating more etc... people change, we never can truly know someone, sadly. Long term marriages ending are more common than I wish they were. It is very sad, especially this time of year. Now will start the next chapter of your story... weather it involves another long term relationship or not. Hopefully you can get the support you need to get through this. Hug your dog lots!

*I am 36 and never dated in my life.*
Thank you. What a way to ring in the new year, huh?
I’m really sad and think I’m going to crack open a bottle of wine. The answers aren’t at the bottom of the bottle but by tonight the bottle will be empty. I think I’ll probably excuse myself from the forum for the rest of today because I don’t want to post drunk.
 
 
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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 03:42 PM
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I think not being needy is an excellent characteristic in a partner, personally.

ETA: even stopdog has posted drunk. Just saying you’ll have good company.
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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 03:47 PM
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Jersey, that sounds awful. And like he's unhappy with his life and work in ways that have nothing to do with you.
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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 03:48 PM
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I just put on a pot of veggie soup (I know! Not lentils! Haha!) and boiling water for spaghetti. Already cooked the sausages for h. Now while that's going gotta do a load of laundry. One humongus plus to working at home is I do laundry throughout the week so I don't have to scale Mount Dirtyclothes every weekend haha!

This morning I bought 1/2 lb of brussel sprouts and later I'm going to try a recipe I found that's supposed to duplicate what I had at Macaroni Grill on Thanksgiving.

Texted briefly with son this morning and found out he's coming over on Christmas day yay! I'm working 4 hours that morning but I'm doing them early (5-9am) so I'll still have most of the day free.
Yay! i'm happy for you. I wouldn't be able to resist your cooking either the veg soup looks yummy.

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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 03:48 PM
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I think not being needy is an excellent characteristic in a partner, personally.

ETA: even stopdog has posted drunk. Just saying you’ll have good company.
I think many of us have done it.
 
 
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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 03:49 PM
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I think not being needy is an excellent characteristic in a partner, personally.

ETA: even stopdog has posted drunk. Just saying you’ll have good company.
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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 03:57 PM
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I think not being needy is an excellent characteristic in a partner, personally.

ETA: even stopdog has posted drunk. Just saying you’ll have good company.

Raises hand too, I've done it plenty of times...
 
 
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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 03:57 PM
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Yay! i'm happy for you. I wouldn't be able to resist your cooking either the veg soup looks yummy.

Thanks. It is really good.
 
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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 04:07 PM
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Veggie soup looks yum. Wish my vegetarian daughter would eat soup i would eat it with her. I am not anti vegetarian but our bodies are designed for an omnivorous diet.
 
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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 04:27 PM
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Hugs, Jersey. I've been thinking about you off and on all day.

Keep breathing...

Post while drinking that wine if you need to.

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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 04:52 PM
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Was planning to study for a bit today to prepare for this upcoming rotation (even though all the attendings at my hospital told me not to) but I just couldn't make myself do it. So instead I watched Christmas movies and baked cookies and worked on a cross-stitch project I'm making for my roommate as a Christmas gift.

To quote Dora the Explorer, sorry not sorry.
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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 04:53 PM
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big hugs jersey yes please do post while drinking that wine if you need to.
 
 
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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 04:55 PM
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big hugs jersey yes please do post while drinking that wine if you need to.

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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 05:02 PM
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My parents each year sound more like they‘d prefer to just break up. Not sure what‘s keeping them together, but I guess if it works for them...
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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 05:41 PM
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Thanks guys. I went out and only bought one bottle so I set a limit for myself. It’s going to go down really easy.
 
 
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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 05:43 PM
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Apparently my D is now upset by my mere existence. As I said to T today, can I let her know I was the one who picked out and bought most of her Christmas gifts? (Guess that would kill the whole Santa thing though, but not sure if she really believes in/understands that anyway).
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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 05:59 PM
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Apparently my D is now upset by my mere existence. As I said to T today, can I let her know I was the one who picked out and bought most of her Christmas gifts? (Guess that would kill the whole Santa thing though, but not sure if she really believes in/understands that anyway).
Ask her about her thoughts on Santa.

I'm not sure how old she is but I knew around 11.... my brothers were close to that. Just depends on when you feel ready.

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Default Dec 23, 2018 at 06:05 PM
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Apparently my D is now upset by my mere existence. As I said to T today, can I let her know I was the one who picked out and bought most of her Christmas gifts? (Guess that would kill the whole Santa thing though, but not sure if she really believes in/understands that anyway).
Can you just ask her questions about Santa? “What is Santa bringing you this year?”
“Do you know how Santa gets in the house?”
Or you can just tell her..mommy and daddy bought your gifts? But then you might have an issue if tells other kids in school that Santa is not real. She’s still quite young.
 
 
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