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Old 12-26-2018, 04:29 PM #1
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Don't get me wrong, I'm super happy for her. However, it means that I won't get to see her for at least 6 months.

I'm hurting so bad. I'm also jealous. I just want to die. I don't know how I'm going to make it without her for six months. I can barely make it 2 days without communication.
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That would be really hard for me, too. Can you maybe see someone else while she's on leave? It wouldn't be the same, of course, but might still be helpful.
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Wow, six months is a long time. HUGS Kit
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Sorry you're struggling Scarlet.thats a tough thing ...
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Congratulations to your therapist but I know this is hard for you.

My guess is that she'll have some options for people to see while she's on leave.
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Oh man. That would be a really tough pill for me to swallow, too.

It probably won't make you feel any better but here in Canada they're allowed 18 months for maternity leave.

I know it's nowhere near the same, and it's going to feel like starting all over again, but I'm sure she will leave you in good hands.

Do you know when she's due?
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I'm sorry, Scarlet. Is there any chance she'd be willing to talk on the phone during that time? And when is she due to start her maternity leave?
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thats so hard! I understand being jealous. i hope you and she can work out some way to communicate.
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Thats so hard. Hugs. I hope she has away to keep intouch six months is a long time.
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Nope. No contact for at least 6 months. No phone calls, texts, emails, nothing. She starts maternity leave in April.
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