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Default Jan 23, 2019 at 12:01 PM
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You all have it right And yes Tesla cars are expensive: $55k. He put $38k as a down payment! And don't forget they need a charger put into the garage. According to him, you wouldn't dare take a Tesla to an auto car wash... that's a $100 hand car wash he pays for!

Trust me, I'd let all of you slap him. I don't like him at all. That's something L and I are going to work on: possibly leaving him.

Yes, he leased me a new car last night, then had buyers remorse. My car payment is less than the Tesla, and we only pit down $3k. He wants the $3k back. We traded my car in to the dealer. We never got an estimate to fix my car Now he wants to possibly fix the car or just use his car.

As for insurance: that's costing us $1200 a month! We can't afford that. He wanted to do a heart study...my dad and I are trying to convince him not to because it will cost us $20k.

I feel trapped. I feel like a slave. On one hand, I should helo out, but I also feel like I'm doing a lot. H doesn't do anything around the house. My dad takes the trash to the street... They expect me to cook H breakfast everyday, and to cook them both dinner.

I can't do this! I need help!

It sounds like he set you up to not have transportation. That was a big control move on his part. I’m so sorry. I know it’s easier said than done, but I hope one day you can kick him to the curb. He sounds pretty useless. I’m sorry if I am sounding harsh.
 
 
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Default Jan 23, 2019 at 12:46 PM
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I'm having a breakdown and my H won't let me go to the hospital
"Let you"? Just go. Take yourself. You don't need his permission.
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"Let you"? Just go. Take yourself. You don't need his permission.
How? My dad couldn't take me, H had his car, and I shouldn't be driving the new car if we're going to return it. Only other way was police escort which I hate because they put you in handcuffs.

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Default Jan 23, 2019 at 01:08 PM
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How? My dad couldn't take me, H had his car, and I shouldn't be driving the new car if we're going to return it. Only other way was police escort which I hate because they put you in handcuffs.
Uber? Lyft?
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Default Jan 23, 2019 at 01:54 PM
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No reply from vet. Totally regret saying anything. I feel so dumb
There is a reason I don't share **** with people. Sigh

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Default Jan 23, 2019 at 02:33 PM
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How? My dad couldn't take me, H had his car, and I shouldn't be driving the new car if we're going to return it. Only other way was police escort which I hate because they put you in handcuffs.
Eff that!! I would take the car. How come ONLY his decisions matter? I would take the new car. Eff him.

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Default Jan 23, 2019 at 02:52 PM
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Ugh, I'm super anxious. I'm looking at different uni programs and I have a phone call coming in approx. 15 minutes from a uni in New York. The fact that I'm anxious just over the phone call kind of signals to me that I'm not ready for another round of uni just yet. We'll see how it goes. Kit
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If he won't drive you to the hospital can you get someone else to do it? A friend or even an Uber if it comes to that. If you need the hospital, you need to go.
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The guy from the Uni didn't call so I guess I can stop being nervous about that. Maybe it's a sign either a) not the right uni for me or b) not the right time for uni for me. Kit
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I survived the night and got to talk to T this morning. She told me not to discuss these things at night; only during the day. She says it's a pattern for us, and we always end the in a fight. She reassured me and told me to just take one hour at a time.

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If the men in my fantasy baseball league had been charge of developing civilization, we’d still be living in caves. They’ve managed to screw up the draft again.
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The couch made it to 100 pages, who wants to make a new one? Kit
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Not me, im ignorant.
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No you're not! You're Super-Una!!!!
Youre sweet. But i was speaking franglais - combining french and english, saying i am ignoring!
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