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Dear T,
Hope you reach (reached?) your destination safely today...wherever it is you're going.

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I keep rolling this around in my head:
At home, I am consciously, constantly keeping these things in mind when I communicate: Keep it short, keep it clear, keep it concrete.

Sometimes when I am talking to you about the decisions I am making, you react as though I am waffling, not clear. Whatever, you can think that. I know where I'm going.

Last I saw you, you repeated back to me what I'd actually said to you, clarifying something. At the time, we were focused on the content of the conversation, but later I realized suddenly--Ooooooohhh!--that the language I use when summarizing my thoughts and conversations is much more ambiguous, ambivalent even, than I use anywhere outside therapy. I wonder why that is?
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Old T, ex T or whatever else I can call you... today I really thought about it all, I don't care what excuse you had to leave me last month when we were actually working towards this months event! Anyway whatever the excuse u want to use, u know what, it's just not good enough. Actions speak louder than your words, and I stupidly believes over 2 years that you cared. Anyway time to stop caring about you, you don't deserve it, you suck!!!
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I wish we could talk during recovery, I regret cancelling my original appointment or you would have been there for me. I keep wanting to text you funny things I don't think I'll ever be ok with not being allowed to talk to you anymore.

I miss you, I hope you are happy.
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Dear t I hope when i see you in a week and half you will have some good news about me seeing a new t after you retire. I feel i have more work to do on myself that requires therapy still.
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I'm feeling hopeless about ever being able to find another therapist. Maybe I should just give up.
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I love you, and I miss you so much.
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Dear T:

Contemplative this morning, looking forward to my day. Feel secure in a way I haven't for a bit now. Writing this down and imagining you can read it but knowing you can't gives me a little fit of giggles, like I'm putting a blanket over my head. I wonder if you'd be surprised at some of my tender feelings for you in these moments.
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I MISS you. (Yes it's Sunday again - official I miss T day)
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I'm a little confused at my feelings after Thursday's session. It's like... I dunno.
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