Dear T: I really need to tell you something XXXIX

Lemoncake · Apr 04, 2019 at 09:45 AM

You hurt me too today. You weren't kind.

Do I give you one last chance in the hopes you'll get it right tomorrow, just before you fade away into the sunset for two weeks. Or should I just let it go now already and you become ex-T in my mind?

LonesomeTonight · Apr 04, 2019 at 09:50 AM

Dear Ex-MC,
Well, it's certainly fitting that the song The National released today (anniversary of our termination) from their forthcoming album has the following chorus:
"Oh, the glory of it all was lost on me
Til I saw how hard it'd be to reach you
And I would always be light years, light years away from you
Light years, light years away from you."

And also the line: "I was always 10 feet behind you from the start."

--LT

Apr 04, 2019 at 10:02 AM

Omgosh LT that kinda fits with me and L too. i had felt so close to her but when she said "you don't know me" I realized how far apart we really are. Light years, like the song says. Thank you for sharing that.

Lemoncake · Apr 04, 2019 at 10:08 AM

YouTube

I googled it and I like it LT.

Apr 04, 2019 at 10:49 AM

I like it too. Thanks for posting that,

Dear T: I really need to tell you something XXXIX

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unaluna · Apr 04, 2019 at 11:08 AM

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Originally Posted by ArtieSwimsOn

I want to tell you this and at the same time reassure you that overall you helped me way more than you hurt me but I'm not sure how.

"You dont know me." Ive been thinking about this re my t since you wrote this a few days ago. Remember the story "The Lady or the Tiger?" Honestly, i think it's like that. How do they show their love for us, and do their job, AND keep us both safe?

Apr 04, 2019 at 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by unaluna

"You dont know me." Ive been thinking about this re my t since you wrote this a few days ago. Remember the story "The Lady or the Tiger?" Honestly, i think it's like that. How do they show their love for us, and do their job, AND keep us both safe?

It is an unsolvable problem I suppose... I do wish all along she hadn't done such a good job of convincing me otherwise though.... if that makes any sense.

Apr 04, 2019 at 11:32 AM

I need to re read that story I think.

SlumberKitty · Apr 04, 2019 at 11:59 AM

Dear T: for some frustrating reason I miss you. I don't know why I miss you. Our last session didn't go so well so why do I miss you? Is it just the time in between sessions is growing long and I desire someone to talk to that listens to me about SH and hallucinations and stuff like that? Why do I miss you? Kit

unaluna · Apr 04, 2019 at 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by ArtieSwimsOn

I need to re read that story I think.

I loooove that story! I remember our class discussion of it in maybe 6th or 7th grade? We were all hoppin' out of our seats, so SURE we knew the answer! Not getting the point AT ALL!!! Ah, youth.

junkDNA · Apr 04, 2019 at 03:06 PM

I hate you sm right now

junkDNA · Apr 04, 2019 at 03:07 PM

happy bday 2 me

susannahsays · Apr 04, 2019 at 04:55 PM

Seems a little dramatic.

LonesomeTonight · Apr 04, 2019 at 05:18 PM

Dear T,
Thank you for being there and doing your best to understand.

Love you,
LT

Omers · Apr 04, 2019 at 05:18 PM

T, I know you were unsure about today. Even as I left you were trying to check. You were so lost in thought I had to ask for my hug. I know you know you have an email, I hope you read it and really hear me. Today was SO much better than anything I had hoped for. I hope you hear that. Even H felt better. I love you T. Oh, and it was fun sitting in your spot today.

Lrad123 · Apr 04, 2019 at 05:35 PM

Wow. What is this feeling that I have when the anger and skepticism towards you fades? This one is scary too.

LonesomeTonight · Apr 04, 2019 at 05:47 PM

Dear T,
Really struggling right now...Not because of anything you said, because of ex-MC.

Love,
LT

Omers · Apr 04, 2019 at 05:52 PM

T, needy Omers is needy. You were still you today even with hubby there. You were you. We need to talk about that, and the stuff from the emails... and... how my perception of you has changed. I see you totally different now... and I kinda like it.

LostOnTheTrail · Apr 04, 2019 at 05:56 PM

I am inclined to think we need a code word.

DP_2017 · Apr 04, 2019 at 07:02 PM

First "Dear T" for Baby T

Even though I don't want to and wont call you "my T", I really appreciate how supportive and validating you are with my T relationship and grief. I love that you have not once judged him and have constantly given me hope for the future. Now let's tackle this self worth stuff in the meantime....

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Lemoncake Luna's offical mini me. Member Since May 2017 Location: Cafe Nervosa. Posts: 9,700 (SuperPoster!) 6 10.2k hugs given	Apr 04, 2019 at 09:45 AM #681 You hurt me too today. You weren't kind. Do I give you one last chance in the hopes you'll get it right tomorrow, just before you fade away into the sunset for two weeks. Or should I just let it go now already and you become ex-T in my mind? __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing."
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Anonymous43207 Guest Posts: n/a	Apr 04, 2019 at 10:02 AM #683 Omgosh LT that kinda fits with me and L too. i had felt so close to her but when she said "you don't know me" I realized how far apart we really are. Light years, like the song says. Thank you for sharing that.
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Lemoncake Luna's offical mini me. Member Since May 2017 Location: Cafe Nervosa. Posts: 9,700 (SuperPoster!) 6 10.2k hugs given	Apr 04, 2019 at 10:08 AM #684 YouTube I googled it and I like it LT. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing."
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Anonymous43207 Guest Posts: n/a	Apr 04, 2019 at 10:49 AM #685 I like it too. Thanks for posting that, !
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Anonymous43207 Guest Posts: n/a	Apr 04, 2019 at 11:32 AM #688 I need to re read that story I think.
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SlumberKitty Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Jul 2018 Location: CA Posts: 27,329 (SuperPoster!) 5 117.7k hugs given	Apr 04, 2019 at 11:59 AM #689 Dear T: for some frustrating reason I miss you. I don't know why I miss you. Our last session didn't go so well so why do I miss you? Is it just the time in between sessions is growing long and I desire someone to talk to that listens to me about SH and hallucinations and stuff like that? Why do I miss you? Kit __________________ Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA
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junkDNA Comfy Sedation Member Since Sep 2012 Location: the woods Posts: 19,301 (SuperPoster!) 11 8,149 hugs given	Apr 04, 2019 at 03:06 PM #691 I hate you sm right now __________________
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junkDNA Comfy Sedation Member Since Sep 2012 Location: the woods Posts: 19,301 (SuperPoster!) 11 8,149 hugs given	Apr 04, 2019 at 03:07 PM #692 happy bday 2 me __________________
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susannahsays Grand Magnate Member Since Jun 2018 Location: Somewhere Posts: 3,355 5 1 hugs given	Apr 04, 2019 at 04:55 PM #693 Seems a little dramatic. __________________ Life is hard. Then you die. Then they throw dirt in your face. -David Gerrold
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LonesomeTonight Always in This Twilight Member Since Feb 2015 Location: US Posts: 20,764 (SuperPoster!) 9 75k hugs given	Apr 04, 2019 at 05:18 PM #694 Dear T, Thank you for being there and doing your best to understand. Love you, LT
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Lrad123 Poohbah Member Since Nov 2017 Location: United States Posts: 1,332 6 372 hugs given	Apr 04, 2019 at 05:35 PM #696 Wow. What is this feeling that I have when the anger and skepticism towards you fades? This one is scary too.
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LonesomeTonight Always in This Twilight Member Since Feb 2015 Location: US Posts: 20,764 (SuperPoster!) 9 75k hugs given	Apr 04, 2019 at 05:47 PM #697 Dear T, Really struggling right now...Not because of anything you said, because of ex-MC. Love, LT
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