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Default Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XXXIX

Well that was a heavy subject right at the end, but it felt okay. And we can pick it up next week. Love you.
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Thanks for calling today, the day before the terribleness takes place tomorrow. You’re weird, but you’re a good egg.
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How can you claim that you care about me when you don't even remember the one part of my trauma that I actually told you about? That makes no sense!
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Default Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XXXIX

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I am unhappy about how my session ended today. And I am not mad at you, but I do feel like your office manager should have waited. She knows your schedule she knew we would be close to ending. I really feel intruded upon. I know that I don’t know the situation fully, but from the little I heard it sounded like a client was pissed that you were not free to talk to her that minute, and threw a fit until she got you on the phone. I am not sure that warrants an emergency enough to where somebody has to interrupt our session and consult you about it.

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Default Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XXXIX

I know it was meant as a statement demonstrating understanding, not as an accusation
But every time I remember it I feel another wave of shame
How can you not hate me?

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Default Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XXXIX

Today, I had a discussion with a dear friend about weariness.
Later, I thought of the time you said to me, "You're carrying a lot of his stuff in your backpack," and I thought, "I'm flat out carrying HIM in my backpack."

No wonder I am weary.
I need to put the whole damn backpack down and walk away from it.

I imagined relating that to you and then wondered: How many times do you sit in your chair listening to a client tell you about their amazing new insight and think, "That's what I've been saying ALL ALONG!"
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Default Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XXXIX

You haven't even come back yet, but all I can think is what's the point if you're just going to go away again for twice as long in August?

I'm back to being low again, but the truth is that it never really goes away. It's always just there in the background and I'm so tired. I know I'm lucky that I've always been healthy but being inside my own head is painful.

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How am I going to handle a 5 week break? Pretty sure this is going to be horrible. I am going to miss the hell outta you.
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Today, I had a discussion with a dear friend about weariness.

Later, I thought of the time you said to me, "You're carrying a lot of his stuff in your backpack," and I thought, "I'm flat out carrying HIM in my backpack."



No wonder I am weary.

I need to put the whole damn backpack down and walk away from it.



I imagined relating that to you and then wondered: How many times do you sit in your chair listening to a client tell you about their amazing new insight and think, "That's what I've been saying ALL ALONG!"
That last part - I so get it - I often wondered how L could restrain herself from shouting with glee "Finally! Duh!" at me when I'd realize something she knew all along....
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Default Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XXXIX

I say to myself "Well, you seem very pleased with yourself that you and your supervisor have been able to mutually m*sturbate about your newest (and most fraudulent to date) therapeutic concept. You call it parallel process, I call it your inability to keep your ***** out of my therapy."
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