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#861
I have had my younger dog for 2 yrs and 1 month. He is still a giant goofus even though he is about to turn 3 in a few months. This breed usually matures around 2. I think he needs to read the manual.
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Poohbah
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#862
Well, yeah, and that was exactly what I was thinking, only not in a way where it was a good thing. If you can't explain why something you don't like is happening to you, you tend to develop all sorts of unhealthy "understandings" about yourself and other people. But I guess it's different when the discipline or punishment (is that a taboo word?) or whatever we're calling it follows some sort of logic that the kid will eventually be able to understand without personalizing it.
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Young Butterfly
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#863
Scarlet.. the truth is even voicing your concerns, unluna is right in that yours is just an opinion to cps and probably won’t have much bearing on the decision. Likely what will happen is they will stay in a temporary placement while your sister is given time to get her act together and show the court that she has changed her priorities. In the long run neither situations are ideal, but those kids need somewhere to go, if you feel so strongly about it could your dad go somewhere else just until the kids go back with mom ?
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Eta: my dad can't afford to be on his own, so he'd be homeless if we kicked out. Otherwise, yes we would. __________________ "Odium became your opium..." ~Epica |
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Young Butterfly
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#866
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No, I am not saying don’t say anything. Share your view and knowledge of the situation. Just sharing with you my knowledge of the system. And sometimes actions speak louder than words. Tell the story, but give them action. I don’t know that situation, but if you feel like you and your h are the best possible solution and the only thing holding cps from letting the kids go with you is your father. Then, I would explore ways for my father could stay somewhere else for a short time just until kids could potentially go home with mom. __________________ "You decide every moment of every day who you are and what you believe in. You get a second chance, every second." "You fail to recognize that it matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be!" - J.K. Rowling. Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire. |
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Wise Elder
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#867
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Big Poppa
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#868
Custody battles are always ugly and I don't know anyone who thinks the law knows best.
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Tweaky Dog
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#869
Morning, Couch. Feeling somewhat frazzled today.
The immediate danger seems to be over, but I don't think my body and brain got the memo. __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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#870
Spent 50 min in line yesterday to renew my license only to be told the new version of the license requires documents, so they sent me back, Sigh... so today will be attempt number 2. I hate going there, so many people in a small room. I am gonna try to get there close to opening time
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#871
I feel terrible mentally today. I need to get work done, but my brain is not cooperating. I have a 2-week deadline to get several projects finished, which is technically doable, but I'm feeling a lot of stress about it right now. I wish I could just disappear off the face of the earth. It feels like no one would miss me.
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Legendary Wise Elder
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#872
Hi Couchies. Yesterday's T session didn't go great. It wasn't horrible, just the session before last was so good that this one felt....bleh. I thought she would be really pleased for me that I gave up SH for Lent. But she said, it sounds like you're just going to SH on Easter then. I know she was trying to get me to think beyond Easter, but sheesh, that's like in a month. I still need to focus on getting through these days. I'm....disappointed maybe....over how the session went. Especially because I don't go back until April 15th. HUGS Kit
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#873
@SlumberKitty Oh, Slumber! I didnt think of your vow that way at all! I TOTALLY took it as using the spiritual power of the time of Lent to strengthen a change of heart. Not like, SH is jellybeans. i think your t has not integrated the idea of such a thing into her life, and still sees it as an outside rule to be followed, not a choice that is made.
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#874
NP, I would miss you. I don't know if internet randos count, though. It's like when my T and I argue about whether she's a real person.
I still wonder what happened to PC people who seemingly disappeared off the face of the Earth, like anais. Last edited by ElectricManatee; Mar 19, 2019 at 12:33 PM.. |
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#875
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Grand Magnate
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#876
@SlumberKitty I am with Unaluna... I don’t know if this helps or not but I know my T would be proud of you for using your spiritual journey to support you on your healing journey.
@ElectricManatee some of us disappear and reappear... this is my third stint on PC... before that it was 2011 and the first time was before the new format so a really long time ago. OK... needy Omers is NEEDY... please post... needy Omers needs a distraction so she doesn’t email or text T. __________________ There’s been many a crooked path that has landed me here Tired, broken and wearing rags Wild eyed with fear -Blackmoores Night |
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#877
Thank you Omers!
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#878
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I would miss you NP. Can you try to use the pomodoro method where you set a timer for 25 mins then take a break every 5 mins. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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#879
I am trying to make myself focus working today but it's so beautiful outside I want to go hiking instead!
Hmm what else.... to give you stuff to read omers... um, well I wrote my extra credit report about the Apollo 11 film and got that submitted. H is out playing golf with friends visiting from out of town. Penelope allowed me to pick her up and snuggle her last night and she was even purring!! That was a rarity indeed.... Nothing else going on with me right now. Must try to do some work now... |
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