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Saw L tonight. It was really good. We laughed a ton! I asked her some personal questions and she actually answered them. I'm really starting to like her. I feel connected. But I feel like I'm betraying T. I don't know what to do. I'm trying so hard to push my feelings down. I keep wanting a hug afterwards, but I won't dare ask her yet. I don't know what to do. T helped me delay my attachment feelings with her. Maybe I should talk to L about it next time?
You're not betraying your old T by feeling connected to new T.

Have you sold the house? If you need to save money perhaps you could do every other week. Will H agree to stop going to the hospital?
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You're not betraying your old T by feeling connected to new T.

Have you sold the house? If you need to save money perhaps you could do every other week. Will H agree to stop going to the hospital?
No. We just lowered the price of the house today by another $25k. We're trying real hard to get it sold.

H hasn't been going to the hospital lately. He's also stopped checking his bp and pulse. So he's being good there.

I can maybe reduce down to every other week. H wants me to go maybe once a month.
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i just want to get away from myself
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would it be weird if i sat around the corner of t building on Monday at my usual session time?
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Eating again - I bloody hate this.
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Well, H wants me to quit therapy We're running out of money. I don't want to, but I think I'll have to. I'm so depressed.

Ugh, I'm sorry. Is there anything you could do to make a little money to cover it? Weren't you guys thinking of trying out doing meal or package delivery, something like that? Or is L willing to adjust your fees or let you carry a balance for a bit?
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Well, H wants me to quit therapy We're running out of money. I don't want to, but I think I'll have to. I'm so depressed.
But he still has that Tesla? Seems like he's sacrificing a great deal for a car. Speaks volumes.
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I'm not sure why I'm still trying with baby T because I leave feeling like I wasted time but I'm going again today. Got my list of goals, see what he can help me do with that. I have one next week too and then I'm breaking/done with him. (Break for sure, but no idea how long)
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No. We just lowered the price of the house today by another $25k. We're trying real hard to get it sold.



H hasn't been going to the hospital lately. He's also stopped checking his bp and pulse. So he's being good there.



I can maybe reduce down to every other week. H wants me to go maybe once a month.
I don't know if this would work if you're using insurance since I was paying out of pocket, but I just thought of it. for awhile when I needed to pay less L (funny we both have an L) let me do half-sessions for half her normal rate. That way I could still talk to her same frequency, just shorter sessions. Hugs to you, scarlet.
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