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Tweaky Dog
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#401
All set for Thursday morning, thank goodness.
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Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Jul 2018
Location: CA
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#402
Hi Couchies! HUGS to anyone who wants one! I went to Disneyland yesterday as a present to myself for getting through Lent without SH. A friend was supposed to go with me but her hubby was sick so I went by myself, which honestly I don't mind. I have just as much fun by myself as with someone else at Disneyland, and when I go by myself I get to do exactly what I want, even if that means going on the teacups after getting off of Dumbo. (Which is what I did btw.) Traffic was nightmarish. I forget how it is to drive in cities in So-Cal. It was ridiculous. Plus being by myself I couldn't use the diamond lanes so that sucked. But Disney was perfect. Crowds weren't bad, weather was optimal, I had a nice time. I'm depressed today which sometimes happens after I do something fun. Like my body/mind/spirit can't handle the letdown. So I slept a lot after I got home yesterday and slept in this morning. My parents are leaving today to go to my sister's for a few days so I'm glad I committed to more time no SH otherwise I'm sure I would have SH-ed, especially with my parents not around, no one watching me so to speak. Although most of the time they don't know when I SH or they don't verbalize that they know, but I would have been tempted to go deep and have to go to the hospital because they wouldn't have known that I went to the hospital. I'm having some SUI feelings today. I think it's some stress at work. Work might be bought out by someone else and that uncertainty isn't great. I've applied at a couple of places just in case. Don't know if they would be a good fit for me or not, but it would be nice to have a couple of options. I wish former T would write me back. It frustrates me when she doesn't. I know she doesn't *have to* as she is of course no longer my T, I just want her to. I guess I still want her to care about me and she did a much better job with me than current T. HUGS Kit
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#403
I feel like I only deserve bad things to happen to me. Don't know where this feeling is coming from today...HUGS Kit
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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#404
My t doesnt make same day appointments. Maybe for brand new people, but not for old people.
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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#405
If somebody buys out the company, that might make your choice FOR you. The uncertainty would still be unnerving. But if its any consolation, every time i got fired, my life always turned out better. But now im thinking that just means it was really poopy before.
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#406
I can only imagine my therapist's response if I asked to meet her on a same day appointment. She would kick me to the curb as quickly as she could read the email. She can barely tolerate seeing me on a planned basis, nevermind ad hoc.
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#407
I've been through a buy out before with a different company and stayed there 3 more years. It definitely wasn't a better company to work for but it worked well enough for those three years and then I left on my own terms. I don't think the SUI thoughts are all about work, I just think work isn't helping the SUI thoughts because I had them towards the end of last week too, and the work thing just came up this morning.
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Always in This Twilight
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#409
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Grand Magnate
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#411
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#412
Did you call or email? Did you ever ask him how quickly to expect email responses or calls back? In my experience 24 hours or so is more usual than 5 hours.
I don't think it rude or unusual not to hear back immediately __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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#413
Someone had a birthday at work so we all got birthday cake today. Just what I needed on a day I skipped my morning walk....Now I definitely have to go for a walk after work.
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#414
Is he working? Has he had time today to even get back to you? Maybe not rude. Maybe just really busy or out of pocket? Seems like a bit of a knee-jerk reaction.
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#415
Said cake was delivered to me in my office even though I had explicitly avoided the break room....
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Wow. I know many people struggle with depression obviously, but i just mentioned on my fb art group how inwas struggling with ita nd the response was overwhelming and many people said thanks for opening the onversation, there were a few people who just said unhelpful things but mainly it was very supportive.
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#417
Hugs to everyone who is struggling .
and hve i mentioned its 4 days to go to see if T will tke me back. |
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Grand Magnate
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#418
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He has at least 10 min between people. __________________ Grief is the price you pay for love. |
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#419
Have you clarified expectations about how quickly to expect a response from him?
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#420
Sorry DP, I'm sure that's frustrating. Maybe you will hear back soon. Maybe he forgot his cell phone today. Or the battery died. I know that doesn't make it better, I just thought of two reason why he might not respond in between sessions.
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