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Child of a lesser god
Member Since Jun 2015
Location: Tartarus
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#901
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Point is, you’re not playing games. I don’t know if he is, but you’re not. Unrelated: I am crabby today. I didn’t sleep well and I would like to eat for energy, but that’s a bit difficult to do when gluten-free. __________________ The secret to eternal youth is arrested development.—Alice Roosevelt Longworth |
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
Posts: 9,692
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#902
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Young Butterfly
Member Since Jan 2012
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#903
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I agree.. and I am sorry your are having a rough day. __________________ "You decide every moment of every day who you are and what you believe in. You get a second chance, every second." "You fail to recognize that it matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be!" - J.K. Rowling. Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire. |
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Magnate
Member Since Feb 2016
Location: Appalachian Mountains
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#904
Closing went fine. I now own two houses. Hopefully not for long. Need to get some work done on the old house to get it ready for listing.
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#905
I'm having surgery as soon as insurance approves it.
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
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#906
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And I got the link just for you: YouTube __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Young Butterfly
Member Since Jan 2012
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#907
__________________ "You decide every moment of every day who you are and what you believe in. You get a second chance, every second." "You fail to recognize that it matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be!" - J.K. Rowling. Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire. |
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Young Butterfly
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#908
And it a slight turn of events.. t just texted me and apologized for cancelling today.. citing stomach issues and then said I could see another t in the practice if I was having problems staying safe. I have not responded yet. I will for sure, just shocked I guess.
__________________ "You decide every moment of every day who you are and what you believe in. You get a second chance, every second." "You fail to recognize that it matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be!" - J.K. Rowling. Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire. |
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Luna's offical mini me.
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#909
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Healed you haven't done anything wrong. Reaching out to a T when you're in crisis mode is perfectly okay and you're definitely not expecting too much. Have you decided if you're going to see him tomorrow? __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Child of a lesser god
Member Since Jun 2015
Location: Tartarus
Posts: 19,146
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#910
If a mucocele is full of mucus and the appendix burst—I imagine that would not be good.
Do you have any idea of a time frame, art? And can they do it by laparoscopy? __________________ The secret to eternal youth is arrested development.—Alice Roosevelt Longworth |
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
Posts: 9,692
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#911
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
Magnate
Member Since May 2017
Location: Earth
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#912
My T referred to our session today as us "grappling." It's an odd visual, and I'm not sure I agree with her word choice. Which is maybe her whole point, that I keep arguing with her in a low-key way. I kind of like that she doesn't back down, even though on some level I want her to just agree with me. I keep pushing her away because things between us keep activating childhood stuff. It's like I know in my head that she wants to help, but my emotional reaction is to shut down and/or run away.
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Feb 2017
Location: the upside down
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#913
That sounds scary, Art. I'm glad H decided to go with you.
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Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Jul 2018
Location: CA
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#914
Good morning Couchies! HUGS Artie for your surgery. Hopefully insurance won't keep you waiting long. Insurance can be such a pain to deal with. I didn't get my walk in today because it was really windy outside this morning. It's possibly going to rain but the wind might blow the clouds away. I'm worrying about my job. With the new company coming in and buying us, I just don't know if I will have a job...I'm sure they already have an accounting/finance department. I've applied at two places. Well technically one place, two positions. I don't want to panic and do a bunch of applying but those two jobs were pretty good so I thought I'd take a shot before I even knew about this company buying us. I'm trying not to worry but the uncertainty does take a toll. This is threatening my no-SH even though I'm trying to not let it. Usually the anticipation of something is worse than the actual event, so I'm just trying to plan in case. Look at my finances, stuff like that. HUGS Kit
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underdog is here
Member Since Sep 2011
Location: blank
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#915
Healed - to me, this guy is messing with you -whether intentionally or not. I would be livid.
Art - hope the surgery goes well. One of the many insane wrong things about us medicine is that insurance companies call the shots and not clients and the mds. ATAT - have you tried Trader Joes GF flatbreads? (but be aware - they have both g/f and regular right next to each other and without paying attention it is easy to grab the wrong bag). I find them quite useful to keep around and easy to eat with a hard boiled egg or cheese or other g/f protein. __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
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#916
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That's good of him--maybe it's a case of something he ate last night so he figures he'd be available tomorrow? Are you planning to just see him then? |
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
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#917
I think today's session went well, maybe aside from my breaking down sobbing at the end of session and T trying to figure out what I needed. I said I thought it was to know he wasn't weirded out by any of the transference stuff (even though only part of session was about that) and he assured me that he wasn't, that he'd tell me if he was. But that he got the sense there was something else that I needed right then and I said maybe, but I didn't know what it was. Which is a slightly awkward place to end on...at least we laughed a bit together when I was going over to pay. He was starting to do the invoice and had said last week I may need to remind him of new fee, so I just randomly yelled out, "150!....Uh...for the fee." T: "Got it!" Me: "You're looking at the clock right now going, 'no, 1:25!' Because...it's the time. Not 1:50. I...I'm just going to stop talking." We both laughed, and his seemed like a really warm, genuine laugh. Maybe that made me feel more OK than his reassurance even. Still trying to figure out what I feel.
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Poohbah
Member Since Feb 2019
Location: NJ
Posts: 1,162
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#918
Healed. Your therapist is an asshole.
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
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#919
Hugs, Art. Hope you get approval from your insurance soon. Do you need to wait at all for the shingles to heal?
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Aug 2017
Location: A house
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#920
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Hopefully you can make more progress with anxiety or whatever else is important to you. You can't change the past but you can change the future. Good luck __________________ Grief is the price you pay for love. |
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