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Default Apr 19, 2019 at 08:25 PM
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I want somebody to take care of me emotionally.. is that ok? Is that a thing? Is that only my job? I hate being emotionally stunted and dysregulated.

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Do you have amazon lockers in your area? I use them now because my area has a lot of porch pirates and I had some dog treats stolen. And the amazon delivery people were awful around here
Thanks for mentioning that; I totally forgot it was an option. I will be going to Whole Foods to pick up my next order.

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Oh boy. What? Just....
But it's so festive.

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Default Apr 19, 2019 at 09:39 PM
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Does anyone remember the old 80s show "Punky Brewster"? I haven't seen it since I was a small child but saw it on DVD at a used shop today. I'm enjoying watching again, I forgot about the cute puppy in it

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Default Apr 20, 2019 at 12:23 AM
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T commented back “haha” I am sure he has done it before.

I am ok- really wish I wouldn’t have SH last night. Wish t would email me back. I think I need to unpack the ending of my session with t this week, and talk more with him about the whole situation with my former doctor. And I don’t have an appointment with him next week, which I think is making me a bit panicked because I have all of this to talk about and no appointment for two weeks. Which also makes me feel so frustrated because before my anxiety started getting bad this winter, I had just started going about once or twice a month and here I am freaking out because I am going to miss a week.
Skipping a week when you're not well can be very hard. Would booking more in advance help you secure a fixed spot? Maybe you could find alternative support when he's not available.

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Default Apr 20, 2019 at 12:28 AM
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I want somebody to take care of me emotionally.. is that ok? Is that a thing? Is that only my job? I hate being emotionally stunted and dysregulated.
Sometimes I want the same thing. It's understandable when you're worn out. I book a massage every now and then because i need that. maybe you could try something similar even if it's blocking off an hour to yourself.

I'm still stuck at age 7. You're doing the. best you can and that's all that matters.

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Default Apr 20, 2019 at 12:29 AM
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I feel terrible. In the space of two hours I've gone from, "Huh, I'm feeling a little tired" to feeling like someone took a Brillo scratcher to my throat. Everything aches, including my feet. Especially my feet.

I just told all my people to plan on navigating their morning without me.

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Good lord, I wish Amazon was not doing their own deliveries.
They keep delivering my packages to my neighbors, and then I have to go find them based on the pictures taken of them on various doormats.
I would complain. I found this guide online when they left one of my sisters books near the dustbins,but didn't say they'd delivered or left a card through the post and it rained. They have not delivered as promised, and you haven't agreed to having your items delivered to an alternative place.

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I feel terrible. In the space of two hours I've gone from, "Huh, I'm feeling a little tired" to feeling like someone took a Brillo scratcher to my throat. Everything aches, including my feet. Especially my feet.

I just told all my people to plan on navigating their morning without me.
I hope you feel better soon and can take the time to rest up.

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Default Apr 20, 2019 at 01:46 AM
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if i had known that my gp was going to bat for me i would not havce sent my t a text accusing himof treachery in the first half and saying the younger parts love him. so cringeworthy.
 
 
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Default Apr 20, 2019 at 01:47 AM
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it is taking forever to eat my D birthday ice creamcake it is just so rich and dense.
 
 
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I want somebody to take care of me emotionally.. is that ok? Is that a thing? Is that only my job? I hate being emotionally stunted and dysregulated.
I thought that was what the Couch was for. Youre not getting your moneys worth!
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I thought that was what the Couch was for. Youre not getting your moneys worth!


Well, for some it maybe...

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it is taking forever to eat my D birthday ice creamcake it is just so rich and dense.
Either Una or I could help you with that. That's what pals are for!


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if i had known that my gp was going to bat for me i would not havce sent my t a text accusing himof treachery in the first half and saying the younger parts love him. so cringeworthy.


It's perfectly normal to have ambivalent feelings and there's nothing wrong with telling him that you loved him.. I think you said you'd hear by the 22nd if he could still see you. I hope he get's back to you soon.

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Does anyone remember the old 80s show "Punky Brewster"? I haven't seen it since I was a small child but saw it on DVD at a used shop today. I'm enjoying watching again, I forgot about the cute puppy in it
Nope not seen it.

I'm rewatching Frasier and Citizen Khan. I also watched Kevin Hart's special on Netflix which was stupidly funny.

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I have been watching victoria wood specials on youtube

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Morning couchies. I had every intention of sleeping in this morning but of course I was up before the sun just like on a work day! So I've already done a third of my homework, started a load of laundry, folded what was in the drier, and went for a 1 mile walk. Waiting for h to wake up now so we can go to breakfast and run some errands.

I've been doing a lot of therapy-type thinking and workings-out on my walks. That's a big part of not needing L so much anymore. Also this whole thing with h has changed our relationship in a good way. I have come to see and accept that a lot of the lack of emotional intimacy in my marriage, hell maybe even all of it, was on me. While I did not speak lies to him, neither did I speak the truth, and that served as an emotional wall between us, which not realizing I had basically constructed it, left me fearful of sharing anything with him so when I should have shared something, instead I would just cry, he would get frustrated, I would cry more in a vicious circle and I continued to get the emotional intimacy that I needed from my relationship with L. She led me to the path of this realization when during our last session in February she asked me if I could take our relationship into my other relationships. At the time I said I do not know. But I have begun to do just that so I don't feel like I need to get that from her anymore either. Thanks for reading if anyone got through all of that. I needed to share for some reason.
 
 
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Hugs and head nods all around as well! With sparkles to those who are not sparkle-averse.
 
 
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Are sparkles hard to vacuum like glitter? Not that it matters - i rarely vacuum anyway.
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