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Default Apr 22, 2019 at 12:22 PM
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I’ve been dumped by another therapist..

I suppose there is no cure for being stupid and undeserving

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Default Apr 22, 2019 at 12:23 PM
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So sorry Fuzzybear, I don’t think you are stupid. I think your therapists are incompetent
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Default Apr 22, 2019 at 12:24 PM
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I am sorry about this! Did it totally blind side you or did you feel it coming? Did she say why?

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Hugs. You are neither stupid nor undeserving. I am so sorry this happened.
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Default Apr 22, 2019 at 12:28 PM
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Fuzzybear,

My heart goes out to you. You are not deserving of this! I don't want to assume anything but I can almost guarantee that her ending therapy has more to do with her than you! Perhaps she is incompetent and unable to help and doesn't want to further harm you. Perhaps she is a mean person who is unable to empathize or understanding your needs. Either way - you did nothing wrong!

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Default Apr 22, 2019 at 12:44 PM
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I’ve been dumped by another therapist..

Dumped?? Jeez, Fuzzy, what happened?
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Default Apr 22, 2019 at 01:05 PM
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So sorry Fuzzybear, I don’t think you are stupid. I think your therapists are incompetent
This 100%.

It's not all you, and because it didn't work out doesn't make you stupid.

I got nowhere with the first two T's I saw before R.

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Default Apr 22, 2019 at 01:30 PM
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Just really sorry you have to experience this again, and FWIW, I don't think you are stupid. I think you deserve the help that will work for you, and this therapist obviously couldn't provide it.
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Default Apr 22, 2019 at 01:38 PM
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Hi Fuzzybear,
I am very sorry things did not work out with your therapist. It has happened to me too, so I get it. I have a therapist now, who has been helpful, and I like a lot, but it has been very challenging at times.

I am hesitant to write this , but I will, in the hope that it might be helpful. I am a student of astrology. Today the Sun is conjuncting the planet Uranus. That means unexpected things are happening to the collective ( a lot of people) presently. I don’t want to impose any beliefs on you, but it might be something to think about. Maybe no matter what, this was not going to work out, at this time.

I am sorry about your loss. Take good care of yourself Fuzzybear.
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Default Apr 22, 2019 at 01:41 PM
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Hugs, I'm so sorry...
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Default Apr 22, 2019 at 01:48 PM
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I'm sorry. That really really really sucks.
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Default Apr 22, 2019 at 02:05 PM
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Hugs Fuzzybear you are not stupid the therapist who dumped you is and i hope you do not give up there are so many therapist much better then the one you had. Hugs
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Default Apr 22, 2019 at 02:40 PM
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It may not help much -- but I think I'm beginning to see and feel that that's THEIR fault. The therapists and the people in my early life. It does help that I have some people, and animals, in my life who don't seem to think/feel that I'm stupid and undeserving. But after years and years of family and therapists who continue that pattern -- it really, really sucks, and I'm very sorry that has happened to you, too.
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Default Apr 22, 2019 at 07:09 PM
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I am sorry some T’s suck... I have better words for them but they keep turning into little stars... I too have been dumped by therapists and it SUCKS. I have learned in time though that it is often a good thing as they were not capable of helping... it is their failure not yours.

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Default Apr 22, 2019 at 07:13 PM
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I'm sorry that happened. Did this therapist tell you if might happen or what?
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Default Apr 22, 2019 at 07:14 PM
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I was just dumped - no warning.

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Default Apr 23, 2019 at 12:39 AM
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sending hugs your way FuzzyBear


sorry you have been let down again

please don't give up hope
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Default Apr 23, 2019 at 01:17 PM
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HUGS Fuzzybear, so sorry this happened.

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Default Apr 23, 2019 at 01:49 PM
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Is that even allowed???? “Ethical”?
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Is that even allowed???? “Ethical”?
It doesn’t matter..
I don’t matter
It’s my fault ....
It always was
They can’t mend a screwed up stupid ***** like me
I don’t even deserve a “hug”
I pollute everywhere I go

Thank you all for replying. I only got what I deserve... rejection and being blamed for my problems by an expert. They are “right” to help others since I’m not deserving. It’s ethical to give help to those who deserve it, I don’t and I deserve no explanation aside from being blamed by them

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