Couch 196: Cinnamon Swirls

May 13, 2019 at 05:21 PM

Something happened last with D she was crying so heart wrenchingly and I am such an inept mother and I don't know how to handle people crying besides asking if they are ok and do they want a hug.i am not great about talking feelings so I feel she suffered alone. I did say she could talk tome if she felt like it.

May 13, 2019 at 05:24 PM

Scarlet that seems so unfair if the document if from a solicitor that must count for something?

May 13, 2019 at 05:26 PM

I pick up my car soon the engine faults were just random codes but one code was true the fuel level code whenever I fill up the fuel level never shows the tank as being full. Anyway if the ligh returns they will recheck it free of charge

SlumberKitty · May 13, 2019 at 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by BlessedCheeseMaker

I pick up my car soon the engine faults were just random codes but one code was true the fuel level code whenever I fill up the fuel level never shows the tank as being full. Anyway if the ligh returns they will recheck it free of charge

I loathe car trouble. HUGS Kit

downandlonely · May 13, 2019 at 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by BlessedCheeseMaker

Something happened last with D she was crying so heart wrenchingly and I am such an inept mother and I don't know how to handle people crying besides asking if they are ok and do they want a hug.i am not great about talking feelings so I feel she suffered alone. I did say she could talk tome if she felt like it.

I happen to think you handled it well @BlessedCheeseMaker. You gave her a hug and told her she could talk to you if she wants to. That is all people need sometimes, to have someone there.

atisketatasket · May 13, 2019 at 05:46 PM

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Originally Posted by unaluna

Back from my root canal. Wowee! The endo looked like Beck Bennett, had the last name of a hockey player, and omg handled a pick like Gretzky

You’re my new Patrick Leigh Fermor.

You’ve even got the hat!

SlumberKitty · May 13, 2019 at 05:51 PM

I think I am not super good at Adulting. But then I remind myself I just got through 3 days without my parents. I know three days isn't a lot, but it felt like a lot. Then when I try to think about getting my own place I just realize how unready I am.

SlumberKitty · May 13, 2019 at 06:07 PM

Trigger for SH

Possible trigger:

I really want to cut my wrist, but I don't want to break my promise to God

This makes for a difficult internal situation. Trying breathing exercises and other coping mechanisms that are healthy. It's just not the same....

May 13, 2019 at 06:39 PM

I was trying to think of the word'manipulted' earlier. I feel manipulated by my T which is strange because we once had a session early on discussing how I let people manipulate me and I don't see it

May 13, 2019 at 06:40 PM

I will try not to bore you again with my now exT. I have to go shopping anyway.

May 13, 2019 at 06:44 PM

Here's an update on my current afghan, just started 5 rows of yellow:
Couch 196: Cinnamon Swirls

NP_Complete · May 13, 2019 at 07:09 PM

Artie, you're so fast at that! Looks really nice.

May 13, 2019 at 07:18 PM

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Originally Posted by NP_Complete

Artie, you're so fast at that! Looks really nice.

Thanks! I was getting so bored watching TV so this is a good replacement as i can do it kicking back in my reclining chair.

Jersey 4 · May 13, 2019 at 07:19 PM

Trial day at new job went well. We are still on track to start July 8th.

Omers · May 13, 2019 at 07:34 PM

Why is it the animals in this house use their words better than the humans? Is it time for T yet?????

NP_Complete · May 13, 2019 at 07:38 PM

The colors on this one are really great.

unaluna · May 13, 2019 at 07:43 PM

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Originally Posted by atisketatasket

You’re my new Patrick Leigh Fermor.

You’ve even got the hat!

No doubt i am part of the Cretin Resistance

unaluna · May 13, 2019 at 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by SlumberKitty

I loathe car trouble. HUGS Kit

I know and now they are just computer bugs!

unaluna · May 13, 2019 at 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by BlessedCheeseMaker

I will try not to bore you again with my now exT. I have to go shopping anyway.

Youre definitely having a difference of opinion with him. And its not boring. I havent seen mine in a year and i havent even STARTED complaining yet. Watch out when that deluge starts!

Seriously, its also NHS vs USA. That plays with your head a bit, that we have different attitudes. We're all like, report him, sue him!

ElectricManatee · May 13, 2019 at 08:24 PM

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Originally Posted by NP_Complete

The colors on this one are really great.

Ooh, that's neat! I like how the colors kind of blend into each other instead of being very distinct stripes.

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Anonymous42961 Guest Posts: n/a	May 13, 2019 at 05:21 PM #41 Something happened last with D she was crying so heart wrenchingly and I am such an inept mother and I don't know how to handle people crying besides asking if they are ok and do they want a hug.i am not great about talking feelings so I feel she suffered alone. I did say she could talk tome if she felt like it.

Anonymous42961 Guest Posts: n/a	May 13, 2019 at 05:24 PM #42 Scarlet that seems so unfair if the document if from a solicitor that must count for something?

Anonymous42961 Guest Posts: n/a	May 13, 2019 at 05:26 PM #43 I pick up my car soon the engine faults were just random codes but one code was true the fuel level code whenever I fill up the fuel level never shows the tank as being full. Anyway if the ligh returns they will recheck it free of charge

SlumberKitty Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Jul 2018 Location: CA Posts: 27,329 (SuperPoster!) 5 117.7k hugs given	May 13, 2019 at 05:51 PM #47 I think I am not super good at Adulting. But then I remind myself I just got through 3 days without my parents. I know three days isn't a lot, but it felt like a lot. Then when I try to think about getting my own place I just realize how unready I am. __________________ Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA

SlumberKitty Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Jul 2018 Location: CA Posts: 27,329 (SuperPoster!) 5 117.7k hugs given	May 13, 2019 at 06:07 PM #48 Trigger for SH Possible trigger: I really want to cut my wrist, but I don't want to break my promise to God This makes for a difficult internal situation. Trying breathing exercises and other coping mechanisms that are healthy. It's just not the same.... __________________ Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA

Anonymous42961 Guest Posts: n/a	May 13, 2019 at 06:39 PM #49 I was trying to think of the word'manipulted' earlier. I feel manipulated by my T which is strange because we once had a session early on discussing how I let people manipulate me and I don't see it

Anonymous42961 Guest Posts: n/a	May 13, 2019 at 06:40 PM #50 I will try not to bore you again with my now exT. I have to go shopping anyway.

Anonymous43207 Guest Posts: n/a	May 13, 2019 at 06:44 PM #51 Here's an update on my current afghan, just started 5 rows of yellow:

NP_Complete Grand Magnate Member Since Feb 2017 Location: the upside down Posts: 3,804 7 6,349 hugs given	May 13, 2019 at 07:09 PM #52 Artie, you're so fast at that! Looks really nice.

Jersey 4 Poohbah Member Since Feb 2019 Location: NJ Posts: 1,162 5 1,170 hugs given	May 13, 2019 at 07:19 PM #54 Trial day at new job went well. We are still on track to start July 8th.

Omers Grand Magnate Member Since Nov 2010 Location: Crimson cattery Posts: 3,512 13 3,133 hugs given	May 13, 2019 at 07:34 PM #55 Why is it the animals in this house use their words better than the humans? Is it time for T yet????? __________________ There’s been many a crooked path that has landed me here Tired, broken and wearing rags Wild eyed with fear -Blackmoores Night

NP_Complete Grand Magnate Member Since Feb 2017 Location: the upside down Posts: 3,804 7 6,349 hugs given	May 13, 2019 at 07:38 PM #56 The colors on this one are really great.