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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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#661
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SlumberKitty
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Poohbah
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Location: NJ
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#662
I had a promising phone interview yesterday that now turned into a meeting in person on Tuesday morning. But they wanted a copy of my drivers license so that they can run their own background check. I usually provide a criminal background check and a driving record, but her husband wants to run a department of Defense background on me. What shows up on one of those? I really didn’t want them To see my credit history. Usually that doesn’t come Into play in my field and now It will? Will They suddenly know all my relatives? My ancestors? I mean what comes up on a government background check from the DOD? I’m worried. I just feel certain things are none of their business-like my debts and who my relatives are. I keep my personal life out of work.
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#663
Thank you! I hope so too. Her email said part of how she grades is on willingness to try new things and less on whether or not she "likes" our work. And we will be submitting a portfolio of our work as the final.
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Grand Magnate
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#664
The topic of validating abuse has come up this week in therapy. Today he told a story of a "blunder" he made as a young therapist by labeling a woman's experience as abuse and how it's made him think twice before labeling something for other clients. While he was relating this, he made a comment that he felt very protective of her. We had a difficult session today topic-wise and after I left I was sobbing on the drive back home. Part of my emotionality was wondering if he feels protective of me too. I really wanted to email him and ask him if he felt that way towards me. I've resisted. It feels a little child-like to ask him that. I wonder if I could gather enough courage to ask him in person though I don't want to put him on the spot. I just really want him to feel protective of me too.
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Child of a lesser god
Member Since Jun 2015
Location: Tartarus
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#665
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I would imagine a Department of Defense background check comes up with federal crimes and charges only, but I don't know. |
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Magnet
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#666
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__________________ Since you cannot do good to all, you are to pay special attention to those who, by accidents of time, or place, or circumstance, are brought into closer connection with you. (St. Augustine) |
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#667
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Poohbah
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#669
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Another thing with craigslist is to look in the wanted section, often there will be people looking for things for a variety of reasons. You can also check with your local women's shelters - our town has a centralized location for shelter donations. You'll still probably have to get the stuff to them. |
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Poohbah
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#671
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Eta: oh yeah and we'll be doing small-group workshops too. Last edited by Anonymous43207; May 22, 2019 at 08:22 PM.. |
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Child of a lesser god
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#672
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My father's security clearance was always hellish because his father had fought for the Communists in the Greek Civil War (this was during the Cold War, obviously). I think they're looking for things like that. Also, do you feel comfortable asking what will be covered? |
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Poohbah
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Poohbah
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#674
My stupid brain and anxiety get the best of me at times.
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Magnet
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#675
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__________________ Since you cannot do good to all, you are to pay special attention to those who, by accidents of time, or place, or circumstance, are brought into closer connection with you. (St. Augustine) |
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Poohbah
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#676
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It’s out of my hands. They have a picture of my license. If they don’t like anything they see on the search- then they can just tell me not to come to the interview Tuesday. (If the check is back by then) |
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Child of a lesser god
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#677
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Poohbah
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#678
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I really liked her on the phone yesterday. She was so kind. Really loves her kids. She said “We are a laid back family and we aren’t demanding. I just want someone to love my kids and keep them safe. We want the person we choose to become part of our family” I guess I just don’t want anything to mess up my chances of being in the running to get it. I just took Unisome. I should sleep soon before it overrides. |
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#679
Reason why I didn't hear from the acute care was because I wasn't deemed unsafe for a psychiatric review and they recommended to my gp to have a private pdoc review but none are cheap enough then they suggested a Telehealth review, how would that work? Apparently on skype, they wouldn't have my notes I don't think and I have lost the letter that has all the meds I have reactions to.
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Magnate
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Location: US
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#680
and we are on the barf cycle again. To make it worse I had a fight with T tonight. I forgot how full of nonsense they are. She said sometimes with people she feels there is more going on than discussed but she doesnt feel that with me. wtf I just felt so alone in that room
I'm so alone at home and so alone in T. I honestly dont think I can face much more. |
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