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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
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#681
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Ugh, hope the cycle ends soon. And sorry you had a fight with T--those can be so difficult. |
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SlumberKitty
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 20,739
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#682
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Hugs...like SD, I'd suggest a husky rescue. Or other animal rescues rather than shelters. As for the furniture, I think some places won't take it because they lack space to store/sell it. We ran into something like that when trying to get rid of a couch in the past. One place to try if you haven't already, if one of you has a Facebook account, is Facebook marketplace. Or local groups on there. |
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SlumberKitty
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Feb 2017
Location: the upside down
Posts: 3,807
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#683
Freecycle + trash nothing! Give and get free stuff is another site. I've had a lot of luck getting rid of stuff that way. You just post what you have, sometimes with a photo, and if someone wants it they'll email you and you can arrange to have them pick it up. I usually just say it'll be on the porch after a certain time and they come grab it and you don't even have to deal with anyone after a couple of emails. I've only done smaller stuff, not furniture, but in my city there are always postings offering or wanting furniture.
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SlumberKitty
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Magnate
Member Since Aug 2014
Location: US
Posts: 2,202
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#684
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what is the point of all this fighting to survive? |
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Jersey 4, LonesomeTonight, NP_Complete, SlumberKitty
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Poohbah
Member Since Feb 2019
Location: NJ
Posts: 1,162
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#685
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I read the bolded part as Hugs...like SD. (Period. No comma). And I immediately thought to myself “What is LT thinkin’?Every couch member knows better by now. Apparently the Unisome is kicking in. |
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SlumberKitty, unaluna
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atisketatasket, chihirochild, LonesomeTonight, stopdog, unaluna, WarmFuzzySocks
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
Posts: 9,692
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#686
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You don't owe her a thing. You're doing your best full stop. what if she thinks I'm wasting her time? Pain at the end of the day is still pain. You don't need to justify reasons why and how suicidal you are- just mentioning yo're struggling should be enough.I hope you do call sk. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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SlumberKitty
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
Posts: 9,692
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#687
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__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Jersey 4, LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty, stopdog
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
Posts: 9,692
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#688
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
SlumberKitty
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LonesomeTonight
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
Posts: 9,692
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#689
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
atisketatasket, SlumberKitty
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
Posts: 9,692
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#690
If you google- free rice vocab . it's a website which builds you up slowly. I played it a lot with my sister when she was little.
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
SlumberKitty
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#691
Last night I upped my seroquel to 125 mg and I have felt slightly more stable all day. I still have my art class and I am quite sensitive about the teacher because I have only been painting less than year and the perfectionist part is really tearing into me about not being that great. I know I can't do landscapes outside of yt tutorials because I am colourblind so I don't attempt them. Hoping I won't cry I really want to be set up around d the corner of the classroom away from the others.
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Jersey 4, Omers, SlumberKitty, unaluna
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#692
She is the best. She is so popular it takes weeks to get a paying appt with her and sometimes months to get a bulk billed appt. I know if it's urgent I can always ring but I am not keen on doctors so I don't.
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Lemoncake, Omers, SlumberKitty
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Tweaky Dog
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
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#693
Session in an hour. Anybody around to pocket ride?
__________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
Lemoncake, SlumberKitty
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#694
I'm in if I am not too late
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Tweaky Dog
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 4,792
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#695
Thanks, BCM
__________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
Member
Member Since Apr 2019
Location: UK
Posts: 39
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#696
Does how your t sits matter to you? I sit with my legs crossed I think out of habit. I have noticed that my t changes position during session to sit with his leg crossed so one leg is resting on his knee/thigh. I read this can be a sign of competitiveness and dominance and I don’t understand if that’s the case why he’s sitting in that position unless I’m saying something that he’s at odds with or something. Or maybe he’s just trying to mirror me? I don’t know but it has been bugging me and next time I plan to try and remember what we’re talking about when he does it so I can see if it might be related to what we’re talking about. What are your thoughts? Does how your t sits matter to you?
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Nov 2010
Location: Crimson cattery
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#697
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__________________ There’s been many a crooked path that has landed me here Tired, broken and wearing rags Wild eyed with fear -Blackmoores Night |
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LonesomeTonight, Louella, SlumberKitty
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 20,739
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#698
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I notice things like this with my T. He also sits that way at times, and I also wonder if he's mirroring me. He'll sometimes have one hand under the leg that's crossed over, which always seems odd. I notice his arms, too--one session he had his arms folded across his chest the whole session, which seems closed off. I told him next session, and he apologized, said to mention something the next time. He'll sometimes have one arm across his chest, his other elbow in the hand and that hand on his chin, sort of like The Thinker pose--I'm OK with that one. Other times he sort of plays with his hands, and I wonder if he's nervous, because I do that too. Or if he's just mirroring me (whether consciously or subconsciously). |
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SlumberKitty
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Louella
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Magnate
Member Since Oct 2018
Location: USA
Posts: 2,787
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#699
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Louella, SlumberKitty
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underdog is here
Member Since Sep 2011
Location: blank
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#700
I never noticed how the therapist sat. I am not much of a body language reading sort
__________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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