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#21
I am sorry all this happened. I don't think there are rules about it either. The way I thought about it when I first read your post was that I probably would not like my clients, work colleagues (that are not friends) etc to show up at my loved one's funeral when they only knew me and not the person who died or anyone else in the family. It would make me feel uncomfortable. But I would never put something like that on social media or anywhere on the public web either (especially about a child or someone who did not choose to be exposed that way themselves). I imagine people who engage in that kind of publicity and discuss it would probably have no issues with your attending the funeral.
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#22
I have not had a chance to read everyones post but I am sorry and can imagine how you feel for yourself and for the pain you feel for the pain your T feels.
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