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Jun 12, 2019 at 04:46 AM
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I haven't seen my T in a little over two weeks and today they emailed me to 'check in' and see how I'm going.
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Jun 12, 2019 at 05:43 AM
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Mine does if I cancel all my sessions out of the blue.
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Jun 12, 2019 at 05:45 AM
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Mine has on very rare occasion over the years , and each one has been meaningful to me.
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Jun 12, 2019 at 06:12 AM
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Mine doesn't use email. She uses text but has never checked in.
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Jun 12, 2019 at 06:30 AM
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Never on his own. He will reply if I email him.
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Jun 12, 2019 at 06:49 AM
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Mine never did. I think it's lovely that yours has though especially if they were worried about you. I know some therapists wouldn't do this because they'd want us to start trusting our own ability to cope in between sessions.
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Jun 12, 2019 at 07:25 AM
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Mine has only if I asked her to at a previous session. She will reply to my emails that I send her between sessions.
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Jun 12, 2019 at 08:15 AM
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I could see mine calling if he had reason for concern but I doubt he would email... unless he was afraid I was super triggered because he knows when I am scared email is the safest for me.
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Jun 12, 2019 at 08:20 AM
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We didn't email or text, but they would have called me if I hadn't seen them without explanation for a few weeks. Rarely happened. Almost always, they knew what was going on. Occasionally, if they knew something was going on (like an illness or something in the family), they would call just to see how things were going. I appreciated their thoughts and taking the time to check in.
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Jun 12, 2019 at 04:45 PM
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Rarely but it has happened.
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Jun 12, 2019 at 05:58 PM
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No and it would have pissed me off if they had. For me, that would be unforgivably intrusive.
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Jun 12, 2019 at 08:29 PM
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she emails if she has time. usually we just text each other.
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Jun 13, 2019 at 01:40 AM
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Never ever, she never ever will reach out first to me.
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Jun 13, 2019 at 08:44 PM
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my T has texted me once or twice unbidden, before. It was because she knew I was going through something at that time, so she sent me some encouragement. If I no-showed for a week or two, I could see her calling/texting or emailing.
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Jun 14, 2019 at 03:14 AM
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The few times my T initiates email, she just tells me if something comes up and she can't do our scheduled session. I email her more often but she doesn't usually reply.
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Jun 14, 2019 at 04:11 AM
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My T doesn't have an e-mail address (at least for work). We both text for scheduling purposes, but he's never texted me to check in on me or something like that. I could imagine him doing that if it were somehow discussed beforehand in session, but not just randomly.
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