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But I still want our marriage to work. My vows are sacred to me regardless of anything else. She understands that and is helping me work through it all. Right now I am working on shadow stuff - those things about myself that I don't accept and so am probably projecting them on h causing stupid fights. I am seeing one of them now and working to accept that bit of me before these stupid fights drive him away anyway. My life feels very complicated atm. Sorry for rambling. I do that too. Try to protect him with silence. It doesn't work. |
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Child of a lesser god
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art--I would encourage you to consider that although something may be sacred to someone, that doesn't mean it results in good for all. (See: the Crusades.)
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#586
@@ - i would have been SOOOOO tempted to say that when the respirator failed, i headed toward a bright light and it told me if i chose to return, i had to leave him...
So i guess i AM a little meaner than you! Brain damage. What a doof. I'll give HIM brain damage! |
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#587
No one said anything was wrong. It's right...if both of you decide to go this route. He's been leaving it all up to you, and that's not fair to you.
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#589
When I was seeing the therapist I never shared my sessions with H. He would ask sometimes: So, how was therapy?
I would simply reply that the therapy was my time, my thing and I do not wish to share about my sessions, BUT- I also didn’t come out to my husband. (Well I’m straight so there is nothing to come out about) but..I’m sure your H is worried Art. |
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#590
I share a quick summary with H about my sessions. No details really. I share with my dad too.
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#591
Well, we often just want our partners not to be who they are. No pointing fingers there. Just saying, thats repetition compulsion. Thats what happens when "the sins of the father" etc. Thats why spousal abuse and taking so long for the ERA, which isnt even a thing, really.
Boy the sixties just flew right back at me there! The personal IS political! Think glocally, act locally! |
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#592
WOOT! I am not crazy... ok, not entirely true... but for this one, small example...
I just found undeniable proof that facilities DO exist for my son, that I HAVE been taking all the right steps and the people I am talking to, that say they have no clue what I am talking about, ARE the access point to those services!!! Now, let’s see if I can confront the lies and dodging without getting arrested. Today would not be the day for that so we will wait until at least Monday... So, if I am not on for a while can we do a couch pitch in for bail money? __________________ There’s been many a crooked path that has landed me here Tired, broken and wearing rags Wild eyed with fear -Blackmoores Night |
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#593
Phew it has been a year since I've been on here! Since then, I have graduated uni, have had two jobs, and tried rTMS...all just to end up back on here feeling down.
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Child of a lesser god
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Evening, Couch!
I've been feeling like a swamp monster, but it's been a creative day in Lostland. Finished a watercolour painting for an exhibition next weekend, as part of my watercolour class. In Couch Food News - where have burritos been all my life? Made and ate my first (two) tonight. Could have fed the 5000 with the amount I had left over. Vegetarian chili - those things are good! __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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