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Default Jun 15, 2019 at 09:21 AM
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creeped out by hundreds of lurkers, ugh

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Default Jun 15, 2019 at 01:24 PM
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Yes I think T's role model what "good" parents were supposed to be like. It has helped repair some of the damaged done but it has also caused parts, especial young parts, to see T as a parent and they cry so much and throw tantrums when I visualize the reality that T is not our parents and will be tossing us out of the nest eventually with no further contact.

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I hope the op comes back and clarifies. Its hard when a thread stays open but the original post was deleted.

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I hope the op comes back and clarifies. Its hard when a thread stays open but the original post was deleted.
Is it really that hard to skip the thread and go to another?

I have a related PTSD trigger. Do you mind? Obviously I would delete the thread if I could, but the site restricts such permissions.
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Is it really that hard to skip the thread and go to another?


I have a related PTSD trigger. Do you mind? Obviously I would delete the thread if I could, but the site restricts such permissions.


Why did you have to say that so rudely? I sincerely was interested that’s all. I’m sorry you are triggered.

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You're right. I'm sorry Sarah. I had to take an extended break from therapy and am not handling it so well. Especially with Father's Day coming up. It sucks to not feel safe posting here.
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So sorry. Did not mean to trigger you.
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My t said he reparented me

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I thought the woman would have been a worse parent than the ones I had

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Default Jun 17, 2019 at 10:28 PM
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When the therapist echoes things the mother has recently said, it pisses me off. Recently, she did that about something to C and even she was annoyed and snapped that she sounded just like her mom. The therapist said "uh oh."

Sometimes she is also kind of annoying about school stuff. Like doing my homework and whatnot.

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