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#421
Yes, I know the answer to that question.
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#422
I guess I’ll tell her tomorrow that sometimes I just plain don’t feel good but that doesn’t mean she has to read so much into it. No, I don’t have an eating disorder and no, I don’t need to see a doctor about my symptoms.
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#423
Stop being so beautiful
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#424
__________________ Mr Ambassador, alias Ancient Plax, alias Captain Therapy, alias Big Poppa, alias Secret Spy, etc. Add that to your tattoo, Baby! |
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Always in This Twilight
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#425
Dear T,
If you'd just f***ing told me that last Monday, you could have saved both of us a lot of grief (and email charges). It's not like your back injury is some big secret. You said months ago that you'd injured it and have been sitting on a special back support thing on your regular chair since. Grumble. Love anyway, --LT |
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#426
Dear T--I feel like you let me down in some way. Like you did your job with the risk assessment but you didn't seem to take my pain seriously. I'm all alone now and want to cry but I'm at work so that would be bad. Why couldn't you have shown me a bit of compassion?
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#427
Also, could you please get my name right? It's a small thing but obviously very personal.
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#428
And when I see you next week, I plan on telling you something that is a secret and painful and I don't want you to make it no big deal. Because it's a big deal to me.
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#429
Dear R,
I'm not ready to come back. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Always in This Twilight
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#430
Dear T,
Not sure what's going on with me...I think the talk about disclosure/lack thereof may have triggered something? Love, LT |
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#431
I cannot shake the feeling that I have worn you out and that you're close to taking email away from me. I really really really hope I'm wrong. I like to think you'd tell me if this was the case - that we'd talk about it first or something - that there'd be some warning. I've been emailing a lot because this topic is SO hard, and it's shaken up SO many feelings.
Today was so hard. I am scared about having already sent you an email. I hope it's ok. I kept it adult. I kept it not needy. In reality, I'm over here crying and desperately wishing you were here and feeling like you are SO far away and like you don't care anymore... but I know that's not true... just a mess but you have got to be tired of my mess... I cannot. shake. this feeling. that you want to be done with me. I hate this feeling. |
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#432
Thanks for the caring reply.
Love, LT |
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#433
Just tell her "actually I go by ...". It would drive me nuts if my therapist got my name wrong or spelled it wrong (my name has several ways to spell it). Sometimes he uses just my initials in emails (and once on the phone) and I'm still not sure how I feel about that. Your name is very personal. I don't think she will take offense if you correct her.
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#434
T, how the heck do I work this out with IOP and you when disclosing information about SH or SI? Do I tell them first then you? You first then them? Just you? Just them? Whoever I see first that day?
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#435
ExT I have put the money I used to spend on you into making my house feel safe for me. I think it is making a difference. I spent all that effort in trying to make you change your room to make it feel safe for me.
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#437
Thank you for talking me through another mini breakdown, you have no idea how much you helped me. The only problem is, your kindness just makes me want you more.
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#438
Dear T,
I'm not sure what to talk to you about today. I'm not sure how to explain the feelings if I'm not certain where they came from. Clearly I was triggered by something. Hopefully we can figure out what it was together. Maybe the "steel trap" thing is part of it? Love, LT |
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#439
I’m not sure what’s going on with me. I don’t know why I’ve been different lately, but I hope we can figure it out.
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#440
So are you laughing at me or what?
You probably aren't... you are on vacation, so I am probably safe. __________________ Life is hard. Then you die. Then they throw dirt in your face. -David Gerrold |
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