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Luna's offical mini me.
Lemoncake
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#1
Welcome to the couch, old and new! A place to hang out - sometimes you get immediate feedback, sometimes you don't.
Shouting, "Cool Whip" tends to bring others out from between the cushions if you're feeling lonely. This is a chatty thread. All are welcome. We're kind of psychologically oriented, sometimes. We try to be supportive. At times we discuss what that means. It’s a place to plop down on the couch when you come home from work or wherever, or wake up in the middle of the night, or check in at lunch, rant a bit or not, and be among friends. We advise you not to drink or drug and text your therapist ("T") - we speak from experience. Sometimes the thread moves fast and you might get overlooked; sometimes it moves slowly and all you hear are crickets. Sometimes you get hugged or thanked pages later. So if it's a bigger question, you might want to start a new thread. Grab a cushion, a spot on the floor, or an armchair in the corner and make yourselves comfy. "A Unicorn Frappuccino is pink, blue and available at a Starbucks near you. The beverage "is made with a sweet dusting of pink powder, blended into a crème Frappuccino with mango syrup and layered with a pleasantly sour blue drizzle," according to a company release. "It is finished with vanilla whipped cream and a sprinkle of sweet pink and sour blue powder topping." Thread title credit: @@ __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Child of a lesser god
atisketatasket
I may be @@, but please dont @ me.
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#2
Wow, I had just seen the pictures on signs. I didn’t what was in it.
It sounds ick. Too much going on at once. __________________ The secret to eternal youth is arrested development.—Alice Roosevelt Longworth |
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Luna's offical mini me.
Lemoncake
Adult female human
Member Since: May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
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#3
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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unaluna
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#4
Thanks for not making me do it!
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Luna's offical mini me.
Lemoncake
Adult female human
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Location: Cafe Nervosa.
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#5
I'm not gonnna be a fan girl. My local store is 25+ mins away and I've only bought two drinks in one year.
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Luna's offical mini me.
Lemoncake
Adult female human
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#6
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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#7
T is on a trip with family this weekend and away for business next week. This is the first week since we started working together that I haven’t called or emailed (I can actually do self care with son gone). But now T has me crying even though he isn’t here. The last email I sent I started to admit that I am attached and afraid of leaving him (whenever that may be, we are nowhere close). I said I was trying to keep in mind that he said he wouldn’t hurt or reject me and that Fr and I do OK even though neither one of us are at the same church any more. Well, T and H have a shared interest that has a lot of events/gatherings around here. T said he might come to the one next door to where I worked. I asked him to let me know because I would like to see him (seeing as it is public) he was surprised I was really interested but he is OK with it. Then later T said by the way, if you go often look for ****** he is there a lot and I think you would like him. So, I can be a little daft. Not only is T OK with this overlap between our personal and professional lives but he is kinda inviting me into the community... so there would be a natural way to see him a few times a year even after we terminated.
‘scuse me while my little attachment disordered self goes and cries..... __________________ There’s been many a crooked path that has landed me here Tired, broken and wearing rags Wild eyed with fear -Blackmoores Night |
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underdog is here
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#8
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I tasted one of their chai tea lattes that my person ordered once after chemo and could not abide how sweet it was. I gave her a pass on mockery because the chemo messed with her mouth so much that anything she could tolerate was great with me. It was a bit of a surprise though because she was even more of a stickler for not wanting things too sweet before all the drugs messed with her. I have started carrying a heating element and my own aeropress or french press mug when I travel. __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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unaluna
Female luna moth - Please, dont @mention
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#9
They should roll up nicely in your portable "Get off my lawn!" sign.
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JaneTennison1
Not the bloody queen
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#10
T today was rough. She had texted that she cared about me. It sent me into a tailspin. Care is a dangerous word to me and I never need to hear it I told her that. She responded that she does care about me. I explained that "doubling down" on her text wasnt helpful and all the reasons I find it scary. She started saying something that sound like she was going to repeat it
Well I covered my ears. Not grown up and told her I literally wasnt going to listen to it. She took that pretty seriously and said she would leave it at she cares about her job. So I wouldnt feel so threatened. I want to nap but staring at 8 hrs of work. |
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underdog is here
stopdog
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#11
__________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Luna's offical mini me.
Lemoncake
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#12
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I don't see the problem with seeing T at events, especially if you live in a small area. It's just something that is. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
unaluna
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Child of a lesser god
atisketatasket
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#14
__________________ The secret to eternal youth is arrested development.—Alice Roosevelt Longworth |
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unaluna
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Child of a lesser god
atisketatasket
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#16
__________________ The secret to eternal youth is arrested development.—Alice Roosevelt Longworth |
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unaluna
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#17
I just got this vision of SD going around the country erasing exclamation points. Like how people take pictures and post them of what was it random capitalized L's? I loved that.
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chihirochild
is trying
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#18
I'm going to see my therapist in an hour or so. So much has happened this week; I don't know what he's going to be like--scolding or sympathetic or somewhere in between.
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Omers
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#19
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I also have a friend who said the goal of parenting is to raise your child into an adult you’d like to hang out with. I kinda see some of this with T too... that if I was still clingy, needy, and wounded I wouldn’t be fun to run into... but if he does his job right and helps me be healthy/whole then it might be nice to run into each other now and then. It would be pretty normal at one of these events to chat for a few minutes, catch up on basics and get a hug. Either way it got T brownie points with H because it is a kind of expensive hobby. I already told H we could do it but now H knows I have ulterior motives and will actually pressure him to follow through and get into it again. H and I are having a date night at one of the events tonight but I know T is at a different one out of state this weekend. __________________ There’s been many a crooked path that has landed me here Tired, broken and wearing rags Wild eyed with fear -Blackmoores Night |
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Big Poppa
CantExplain
is Captain Therapy
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#20
Why would anyone get up at 5:15 to work at home?!
PS: Except farmers, of course. __________________ Mr Ambassador, alias Ancient Plax, alias Captain Therapy, alias Big Poppa, alias Secret Spy, etc. Add that to your tattoo, Baby! |
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