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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
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Oct 16, 2019 at 08:55 AM
#141
Dear T,
Aw, that was a really caring and supportive response. It made me cry, in a good way. It's more how you used to reply to those sorts of emails before this summer happened. Which makes me think something was in fact going on with you at that time to make you be...how you were toward me. You've seemed more like your old self in session lately, so glad to see you were in email, too. (Don't worry, I won't push it!) Love, LT |
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Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Jul 2018
Location: CA
Posts: 27,329
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Oct 16, 2019 at 12:22 PM
#142
Dear T: Please be your old self today. Please don't be overly tired and say weird things and not remember who I am. Please be helpful. Thanks Kit
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Member Since Aug 2014
Location: US
Posts: 2,202
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Oct 16, 2019 at 12:48 PM
#143
Dear EMDR T
thank you for believing I can do this. whether I can or not, I appreciate it. |
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Legendary
Member Since Oct 2015
Location: England
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Oct 16, 2019 at 04:47 PM
#144
How profoundly you undermine the work of a good T. You could not even make the smallest goodwill gesture. I feel sorry for you , it must be awful to be like that , but the funny thing is , you think you're winning.
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Oct 16, 2019 at 09:13 PM
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Oct 16, 2019 at 09:20 PM
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Oct 16, 2019 at 09:25 PM
#147
T, I'm still thinking over how you said to bring in the topic of my first therapists. I oddly feel compelled to defend him right now. I doubted my own memory some days ago so I went back to my private journal and my memories were right. I even had posts on facebook during that time period where online friends told me his behaviour wasn't ok. Yet I feel very pulled to blame myself, pathologise myself because he had over 20 years of experience by the time I saw him...
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Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Jul 2018
Location: CA
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Oct 17, 2019 at 09:59 AM
#148
Dear T: thank you for being your lovely self last night and not being wacky or bizarre. Thank you for remembering things about me and keeping the session going in a regular direction. I don't think it was the most therapeutic session I've had but it was, at least, an encouraging one. Thank you for being there for me and walking through this stuff with me. Kit
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
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Oct 17, 2019 at 02:05 PM
#149
Dear T,
Way to open up a huge topic with 20 minutes to go there, T...I should have deferred to next session. Especially because I was mostly talking around it for much of the time, then got to the meat of it near the end. I think it led me to have a big revelation on the way home, which I suppose is ultimately good, but...now I want to talk about it more...and I think I need to look at the timeline of some things to see if it totally makes sense. But I think perhaps we may have hit on the root of some things... Love, LT |
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Oct 17, 2019 at 04:45 PM
#150
I think I am going to hurl. I should have canceled.
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
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Oct 17, 2019 at 06:36 PM
#151
Dear T,
Glad I can see you tomorrow to discuss what I realized. Hope you can help me work through it all. Love, LT |
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Oct 17, 2019 at 10:01 PM
#152
Thank you for being so spot-on today and exactly how I needed you to be. The energy in the room today was so calm, relaxed and open. I am so glad now that I told you all those things in last week's painfully honest email.
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Grand Poohbah
Member Since Jan 2017
Location: Here
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Oct 18, 2019 at 01:34 AM
#153
I'm glad you liked my birthday gift. Thanks for a hug
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Magnate
Member Since Aug 2014
Location: US
Posts: 2,202
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Oct 18, 2019 at 08:16 AM
#154
Dear T
I miss you. I need to know who I am without you for a while |
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
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Oct 18, 2019 at 10:59 AM
#155
You didn't reply to my original email sent on the 9th. I expected a response to the second one atleast.
I can feel myself getting agitated and thinking "screw you. Maybe I should call you up and ruin your evening. " It's already been two weeks without you . __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing."
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Legendary Wise Elder
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Oct 18, 2019 at 11:33 AM
#156
I went into a session a couple weeks ago really crabby because I felt like I was going to have a heart attack. My therapist said it was anxiety and I was “looking for zebras” well now it’s showing up on medical tests that I may have a heart condition and I’m doing further tests and I have no idea what’s going on. But I know for sure this is a classic example of don’t listen to your T or anyone who says it’s just a panic attack or all in your head. That’s why people with mental illness are more likely to die then people without MI. People don’t take them seriously.
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Legendary Wise Elder
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Oct 18, 2019 at 12:00 PM
#157
Hope everything turns out okay @Mountaindewed, that's scary. Sending you hugs! Kit
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Oct 18, 2019 at 12:08 PM
#158
Oh and L, thanks also for what you told me about the feather painting I made for you.
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 20,762
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Oct 18, 2019 at 01:19 PM
#159
Dear T,
Thanks so much for today's session. I felt really validated by you, and that means a lot. It just feels like you get it. All the mixed emotions. Including some I feel I shouldn't talk about. And it's really interesting to me that you wondered if the drinking was partly due to that--kinda wish you'd mentioned that at some point, but I also understand why you would have been reluctant to do so. Maybe you figured I'm come to realize it on my own, and that I needed to do that. I also find it sorta funny that you were worried I'd be offended that you said I seem to struggle with handling stress. Like, no duh! Love you, LT |
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Tweaky Dog
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Oct 18, 2019 at 01:33 PM
#160
P,
After today's training...I've realised something. I knew that you didn't take me seriously, but to actually have it confirmed that you don't treat somebody who's disclosing something to you in that way.
Possible trigger:
And that really hurts. First rule when somebody discloses something to you...believe them. You didn't, so I didn't believe myself...and I'm back at the beginning of the circle. __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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