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#41
Thanks NP. I don't know what the answer is.
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#42
I wish there was some (peri)menopause hotline one could call to complain about one's body and get some reassurance that everything is within tolerances.
My (male) therapist seems okay with talking about these issues, but, boy, is it weird. |
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#43
Thank you guys. I havent crafted in forever, but wanted to do their costumes again this year. I bought the dresses but adding some things to them. Started adding to one dress tonight, will probably finish it tomorrow hopefully.
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Grand Magnate
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#44
Why, precisely, am I awake at 4:30 am? Ugh.
Hugs for Art and anyone else who needs one. |
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#45
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Poohbah
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#46
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Inner Space Traveler
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#47
Just realizing in my case therapy isn’t meant to ‘cure’, treat or even SOLVE anything.
It’s just meant to give me supportive company as I ‘traverse the ups and downs.’ (?) I have been with T for five years ....and I’m just finding this out...now?! Maybe it’s just I’ve had sooo many emergencies (emergent and non-emergent health issues, impending move, deaths in family, squawks with DD) there is no time for ‘solving or healing anything’ bc we are too busy putting out fires. Maybe there is no such thing as ‘healing’ ? Maybe there is no such thing as ‘therapy’? Maybe they keep me so busy ...maybe they keep me so attached..so I don’t off myself?? Im so gullible. I didn’t even see it. Goals, people. Revisit goals with your T. |
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#49
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I thought there might be some sort of ‘trauma therapy’ that would bring me understanding and peace with the past traumas. I thought I would feel better, more whole. I thought it might help me feel like a human being. These were my hopes. I misunderstood. Now there is none. |
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#50
Last edited by unaluna; Oct 13, 2019 at 11:13 AM.. |
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#51
An old friend I haven't seen in 20 years got in touch with me, which seemed fine at first, but it has turned into a walk down a very crappy portion of memory lane, crappier even than I realized at the time or than I've been letting myself remember. Monday therapy session got postponed to Tuesday so I am just stuck on my own with this ****.
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#52
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I don’t think this is on you. “Healing” and “wholeness” are just part of the bill of goods the profession tries to sell clients. They are shorthand for “scarring over” and “functional.” __________________ The secret to eternal youth is arrested development.—Alice Roosevelt Longworth |
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Poohbah
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#53
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A t's role can be whatever you need it to be. And a good t will already know that. What each client needs is as unique is they are. I'm fine with my t being a support to me as I navigate the difficulties of my current life (with occasional re-visits to the past) and so is she. |
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#54
I got a new antenna channel recently, Wdbl - Dabble? - it shows martha stewart reruns and designer shows. Right now im watching a Flip this house show, and it was a deserted house that cats took over, so theres a cat in almost every shot, giving the flippers the stink eye, like what are you doing in my house!
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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#55
Yeah precaryous. I get you. They cant change the past. As the twig is bent, so grows the tree. What kills me is that other people dont see that the twig didnt bend itself.
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#56
Is it arbor day? When is arbor day?
For some reason I thought it was in the fall -but I realize that would not make sense to plant trees in fall. Just checked - April What difference would it make to other people what happened to the tree? __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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#57
Im tryin to party with the other trees, but i party weird.
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#58
Are you the party hearty sort?
__________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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#59
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Luna's offical mini me.
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#60
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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