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chihirochild
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#381
Oof. Shared an intense thing with T yesterday and am now reeling. I hate that I have to wait a week to talk with him again. Sometimes therapy really sucks.
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#382
I know that feeling very well. Hope you're able to get through it. Is journalling helpful to you?
__________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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chihirochild
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#383
That’s a good idea. I think I’ll give it a try. I’ve been using this website called 750 words and I like it a lot.
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chihirochild
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Location: North America
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#384
Even though I am now in my early 30s, my parents sent me 2lb of candy for Halloween.
*passes the box around the couch* |
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chihirochild
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Location: North America
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#385
Ugh y'all I am so antsy today. I hate this so much.
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Child of a lesser god
atisketatasket
I may be @@, but please dont @ me.
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#386
It hardly ever happens, but sometimes after intense exercise, usually weight lifting, I get plunged into a fit of depression. So I’m eating mashed potatoes for comfort food.
I keep thinking about this episode early in my relationship with 2ex. I needed a little time to myself and said so, he freaked so much I felt I had to apologize, he said “I forgive you.” Red flags all over. Even at the time I found it disturbing (particularly the forgive bit because it didn’t seem like something that rose to that level for me). Should have listened to myself. Last edited by atisketatasket; Nov 02, 2019 at 02:10 PM.. Reason: Typo |
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Magnate
chihirochild
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Location: North America
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#387
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#388
I'm an introvert and need my alone time. STBEx couldn't deal with that. He would actually take it personally if I told him I needed some time alone. Like tell me I had hurt his feelings because I wanted an hour without him. I loved reading but I basically gave it up because every time I tried to pick up a book, he would demand my attention. It may sound overly dramatic, but I feel like I lost part of myself with him. So you're not alone. Red flags are amazingly easy to not see or not give appropriate significance to.
Now I have so much alone time, it's killing me. |
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Child of a lesser god
atisketatasket
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#389
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#390
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Jersey 4
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#391
I’m out to dinner with H and there has been radio silence through this whole meal. I guess after 20 years of being together there is nothing else to say. I should have dates more. Took more risks.
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#392
It's the exact same thing with H and I. I guess that's why we rarely go out to dinner - there's just an awkwardness about it.
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Child of a lesser god
atisketatasket
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#393
No wonder una preaches napping--I took one that lasted almost 3 hours and my mood is definitely improved.
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LostOnTheTrail
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#394
Having a hard time tonight. I should journal, but struggle with motivation.
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WarmFuzzySocks
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#395
Red flags....I can see them in retrospect. But even now I wonder how the heck was I supposed to know before I was in so deep it was red flags and not just a needy quirks?
The n-s-(e)-t-b ex has packed his things. He’s moving when he gets back from his work trip. I’ve been cleaning and reorganizing the kitchen all day. __________________ Since you cannot do good to all, you are to pay special attention to those who, by accidents of time, or place, or circumstance, are brought into closer connection with you. (St. Augustine) |
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SlumberKitty
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#396
Feeling pretty bad today. Having some SI thoughts and SH thoughts. Watching some old mysteries on TV. I did go out to lunch with a friend and her sister. And went to Target. My dog is playing with the stuffed llama I bought her today.
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LostOnTheTrail
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#397
HUGS, Kit! I didn't know you had a dog?
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unaluna
Female luna moth - Please, dont @mention
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#398
Last edited by unaluna; Nov 02, 2019 at 07:10 PM.. |
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chihirochild
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#399
I want to call my T so badly. I effing hate this.
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SlumberKitty
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#400
__________________ Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA |
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