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Always in This Twilight
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#421
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Hm, OK. You make some good points. I think it's just confusing that he was all, "I'm not going to do that just because you asked me to" then started doing it. So in your opinion, why is he doing it now then? Why not just hold to his word? It's partly, too, that if he forgets and sits down (like if I paid at the beginning), then he'll be like "oh right" and stand up, without my saying anything. I guess I just don't get why he'd be OK with it now, unless it was literally just about his back and that's doing better now. Plus the fact that he joked about it regarding the fish--he knows it was a thing for me. |
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Child of a lesser god
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#422
Maybe you’re not asking him to do it anymore in a way that makes him feel manipulated, ergo he is doing it. I didn’t get the sense he ever questioned it was important to you, only that he objected to how you asked and how you reacted to his reaction.
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Magnate
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Location: CO
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#423
H did something that I think was totally unacceptable the other day and was laughing about it today. I don't find it funny at all, but apparently that's what people get. I'm actually angry with what he did but cant tell him because he sees nothing wrong with it. Maybe I'm overreacting.
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Poohbah
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Poohbah
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Location: Earth
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#425
For some reason I ended up with an '80's sing-along mix on YouTube.
Brings me back to the days of going to the roller rink every Saturday morning (after using half a can of Aqua-Net and rolling up my Guess jeans. |
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Always in This Twilight
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#426
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I used to hit the roller rink around 1989-91 or so. Rolled up jeans, not too much hairspray, but I'm sure plenty of other questionable trends. |
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Always in This Twilight
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#427
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Ah, good point. Like if he didn't do it now, I wouldn't say anything. And when we discussed that conflict recently, he said he was confused by how much it had bothered me, because I hadn't mentioned it before. So, yeah, maybe it wasn't so much that it was an unreasonable request, but how I asked and pushed for it. The fact that I've back off, he's more OK giving it to me. Because I'm not demanding it. It actually seems similar with email replies since I've been back. I email him less often and have been throwing him softballs, easy things to reply to (he's said this--not the softball part, but that they've all been easy replies). |
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#428
1967-68 for me. I never did learn how to stop. Or turn, or anything fancy. Like bend my knees. But i could go around and around for hours. On the spectrum?
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Always in This Twilight
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#429
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Poohbah
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#430
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Grand Member
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#431
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I’m sorry you’re doubting yourself and your reaction, which is totally valid by the way. This is how I feel with my husband a lot. I was actually just laying here thinking about how I feel really alone and like no one understands how he hurts me, because I worry I’m just being too sensitive about everything. It sucks and I’m sorry you’re dealing with it too. |
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Magnate
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Magnate
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#433
I'm really struggling writing this last paper for my class. It's not due until the 11th but I really want to get it out of the way. It's also the longest one we have to write for this class and is a group theoretical framework proposal. I can't seem to figure out what to write for each part. I think I'm overthinking it and it's not supposed to be as hard as I'm making it.
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Poohbah
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#434
I must find something to do for today. I’m babysitting my twin friends at 6pm but need to keep myself busy until then. I’m not sure what I’ll do today. I was out all day and night last weekend.
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Luna's offical mini me.
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#435
I'm surprisingly feeling good.
Got my washing done at 3.45am because I couldn't try to sleep anymore. I went to bed at 7.30pm the previous night. Gym Then studying at a cafe for around 3 hours. I was following the rule that said you had to buy something. So I did buy the cheapest item which was a pretzel for £0.57p. So i've found my teeny loophole. i would have gone back down to buy a coffee but I didn't want to leave my laptop unattended. I don't feel bad for staying for so long because they're a big chain and have three stores in my area super close to each other and they're billed as a "study cafe". There were lots of other students too mulling over their single cup. I was on the second floor and it was still half empty which is better since they opened the larger shop. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Luna's offical mini me.
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#436
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Window shopping. Documentary on netflix? Cleaning? In bed chatting with us? Trip to your fav bar for lunch. What do you normally like? __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Luna's offical mini me.
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#437
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Can you email other students? __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Luna's offical mini me.
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#438
My take is that often other blame us for being too sensitive when it's not our fault, but rather their behavior which causes the reaction which is perfectly valid.
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Magnate
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#439
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Edited to add: I posted on the instructor forum to ask to clarify some parts of it even though week 6 doesn't start for 2 more weeks. Last edited by SheHulk07; Nov 23, 2019 at 01:08 PM.. |
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#440
Thanksgiving week, woooo!
My wife took the week off and decided she wants to Marie Kondo her stuff, which I fully support. I was a little disappointed that my sister-in-law decided not to host Thanksgiving dinner this year, but now I'm feeling relieved that we won't have to drive a long distance with a one-year-old. We're having dinner with some local friends and one of their moms instead. Anybody else have fun plans? |
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