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Default Dec 10, 2019 at 12:04 PM
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I know what color mine are but I have no idea what anyone else's are.

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I am tired today. I only slept about 3.5 hours last night. I was worried and upset about a coworker of mine, because she is upset (not with me) and she didn't feel like she had a manager to go to with her work issue. We are used to a vertical organization but now that we are bought out the organizational structure is more of a matrix and no one knows who they report to. I texted with her a bit after work. Then around 9 PM something I Skyped the owner (who lives in NY) so it was like midnight there. Of course she was probably sleeping but that's okay. So then at 2 AM my time she is Skyping me, so I start to Skype back. She is like Kit, you need to be sleeping!!!! I'm like, I know but I'm upset and worried and I can't sleep when I am upset and worried. She was like, "try!" So at 3:30 AM my time I was like, "Well, I'm not sleeping so Good morning!" So we skyped a little more. Then I came into work early today and I talked a little to the employee who doesn't want to tell me what is going on, which is totally okay but I heard some stuff through a third party about what had happened. So I offered to let her use my office if she wanted to talk or Skype the owner, and I offered her the owner's cell phone number if she wanted to talk to her not at her work station but in a private location. I hope it helped. But *I* need to learn to not let other people's stuff affect me. Particularly when it has nothing to do with me, and I can't do anything about it. I mean, I did what I could by providing her an alternative person to talk to, but I need to stop losing sleep over stuff like this. It affects me. And it's probably not great for my depression!

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Default Dec 10, 2019 at 12:44 PM
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@NP_Complete you have a pretty eye! Ok now you’ve inspired me and I spent the last 20 minutes cropping random photos to just my eye.. but I went a little too far and made a collage because the color isn’t quite the same in any of them Couch 209: The Kummer Couch
@LonesomeTonight yeah my eyes are kind of lighter. My parents always called them hazel, but I’m not sure if they are. My first drivers license said hazel, but now I think it says blue, which doesn’t seem fully accurate either. They seem to shift from green-blue depending on what I’m wearing and the lighting. Couch 209: The Kummer Couch
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My eyes are blue.

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Default Dec 10, 2019 at 12:52 PM
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Pretty eyes, Summer! They look blue to me, but of course it could be the color settings on my laptop.
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My eyes are brown. No mistake. Very brown.
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My eyes are brown. No mistake. Very brown.

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Default Dec 10, 2019 at 05:26 PM
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This ski town is really dead—I’m eating by myself at a restaurant with only four other customers in it. Good news is that I had the jacuzzi, steam room, and sauna to myself at the AirBnB condo facility.
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Default Dec 10, 2019 at 06:19 PM
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My eyes are the green and rust hazel. Oldest daughter has green and blue hazel. My youngest daughter has very dark brown eyes. Ya'll both have beautiful eyes!
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This ski town is really dead—I’m eating by myself at a restaurant with only four other customers in it. Good news is that I had the jacuzzi, steam room, and sauna to myself at the AirBnB condo facility.
I hope you have a great time! No crowd makes it right up my alley.
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My Dad just texted me and was all like, you want pizza tonight? Um...yeah!!

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Default Dec 10, 2019 at 07:08 PM
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We have "communication training" tomorrow at work....I wonder what that is...
maybe it's "don't skype your boss at 2 AM in the morning!!!" although to be fair, it was 5 in the morning her time, and she was the one who Skyped me first. But I did Skype her at midnight, so......

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I hope we don't have to roll play during this "communication training." Ugh

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I'm pretty sure I took communications at uni but for the life of me I don't remember what we did in that class.....

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I’m sitting in the hair salon getting my color done.

I’m sick in my stomach. Work was annoying today. I didn’t want to be there. At all. I’m also pretty sure I have baby vomit on my shoes.
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Went Christmas shopping with my dad tonight, then to dinner with him, H, and D. Shopping went as well as it goes, I suppose (I mostly do online shopping now, so being in a mall for a few hours is like .) He's generally very liberal in his politics, like, watches Rachel Maddow regularly liberal. But tonight he made this sort of offhanded racist comment (about next-door neighbors that could potentially be moving in), and I sort of froze in how to respond. Like I said something like, "They might be very nice people" and "Remember that I'm the minority in my neighborhood..." But I don't feel I responded strongly enough. It just threw me off--my mom might make those comments, but generally not my dad. Part of me is tempted to email him about it, but H is like, "Don't bother, he probably won't even remember saying it." Just feel weird about it...
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Went Christmas shopping with my dad tonight, then to dinner with him, H, and D. Shopping went as well as it goes, I suppose (I mostly do online shopping now, so being in a mall for a few hours is like .) He's generally very liberal in his politics, like, watches Rachel Maddow regularly liberal. But tonight he made this sort of offhanded racist comment (about next-door neighbors that could potentially be moving in), and I sort of froze in how to respond. Like I said something like, "They might be very nice people" and "Remember that I'm the minority in my neighborhood..." But I don't feel I responded strongly enough. It just threw me off--my mom might make those comments, but generally not my dad. Part of me is tempted to email him about it, but H is like, "Don't bother, he probably won't even remember saying it." Just feel weird about it...
I’d leave it be and maybe say something more if it happens again. Ya know?
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I had my Lupron shot today and I’m completely knocked for a loop. My limbs feel too heavy to move.
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I am in a self-hatred spiral. Also, my T confronted me about me having an eating disorder, tonight. All around fun!
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This is weird because now on tapatalk, every time I scroll through the forums I just see a giant collage of my eye as the preview for this thread..
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