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atisketatasket
I may be @@, but please dont @ me.
Member Since: Jun 2015
Location: Tartarus
Posts: 19,137
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#21
Reading applications for our assistant professor position. Eyes glazing over. This may drive me to cleaning.
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SheHulk07
Soft kitty, warm kitty, little ball of fur
Member Since: Oct 2013
Location: CO
Posts: 2,305
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#22
I see T tomorrow after our 2 week break. Part of me doesn't want to see him because I want to avoid telling him that
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JaneTennison1
Not the bloody queen
Member Since: Aug 2014
Location: US
Posts: 2,202
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#23
EMDR T cancelled so I won't see her for 2 weeks, there was a medical emergancy in her family. In the email she sent she went into detail and I wish she didn't, now I feel like my problems are so nothing I really don't even want to go back.
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JaneTennison1
Not the bloody queen
Member Since: Aug 2014
Location: US
Posts: 2,202
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#24
LT I thought of you this morning, I woke up and my wedding rings were not on my finger!!! I could have sworn they were there last night. After searching for half an hour I found I had taken them off in my sleep and put them on under my pillow. Good thing I'm not a T lol
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SheHulk07
Soft kitty, warm kitty, little ball of fur
Member Since: Oct 2013
Location: CO
Posts: 2,305
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#25
H told me he promises to make 2020 my best year yet. I want to
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Legendary Wise Elder
SlumberKitty
is staying stable.
Member Since: Jul 2018
Location: CA
Posts: 27,329
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#26
I gave up and SH-ed. Sigh. 2020 is starting out great (sarcasm) Hugs all, Kit
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SheHulk07
Soft kitty, warm kitty, little ball of fur
Member Since: Oct 2013
Location: CO
Posts: 2,305
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#27
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Always in This Twilight
LonesomeTonight
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Member Since: Feb 2015
Location: US
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#28
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That's pretty funny--glad you found them! On a similar note, a little while ago I took off the ring I was wearing on my right hand (a Christmas gift) because it felt a little snug, and I had trouble getting it over my knuckle because my hand was warm. Made me think of T possibly having trouble getting his on... |
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Always in This Twilight
LonesomeTonight
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Location: US
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#29
Hugs to Kit and SheHulk and whoever else wants or needs them.
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velcro003
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Member Since: Oct 2008
Posts: 7,357
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#30
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I am feeling really depressed. Has gotten worse since Thanksgiving, and my T wants me to think about doing some sort of volunteering to get out of my head and bed. This isn't the first time we've talked about this, and I did go to a volunteer thingy at the SPCA,a nd then ghosted before I ever signed up to do the actual volunteering. The same thing happened years ago with Big Brother/Big Sister. Unless I am at work, I am in bed, mostly sleeping. |
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stopdog
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Member Since: Sep 2011
Location: blank
Posts: 34,704
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#31
We had a rich and full day - the dogs got to bark at a possum on my fence (possum is fine - my dogs are really pathetic at actually catching anything) and I had friends over for dinner.
__________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Jersey 4
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Member Since: Feb 2019
Location: NJ
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#32
I’ve been in and out of sleep for the past couple days. I plan to stay up today and clean. I have work tomorrow then I go back to my regular schedule starting Monday. I must stay up today. I will stay up today.
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chihirochild
is trying
Member Since: Feb 2017
Location: North America
Posts: 2,360
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#33
God the ED is empty. I should have brought my knitting.
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LostOnTheTrail
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Member Since: Aug 2011
Location: England
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#34
Feeling more at ease since R replied to my email. Just the validation that it was 'intense' was enough. Also led me sideways into my word for the year....
Breathe __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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SheHulk07
Soft kitty, warm kitty, little ball of fur
Member Since: Oct 2013
Location: CO
Posts: 2,305
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#35
Seeing T in a few minutes after our 2 week break. Hoping it goes well since we won't meet again until Monday.
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SummerTime12
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Member Since: Mar 2013
Location: USA
Posts: 874
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#36
@LonesomeTonight about the whole wedding ring thing—I’m not a T, but I have a similar role in mental health at my job and internship, and I didn’t wear my wedding rings for like 6 months. I stopped wearing band first bc one of the diamonds fell out, and then I stopped wearing the engagement ring bc the diamond was loose. Then I started wearing just the band again bc I figured the diamond already fell out and I wanted to have at least one ring on that finger so people wouldn’t think I’m single lol. Now I wonder if any clients noticed this. I hope I didn’t cause any distress, oops
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Poohbah
Jersey 4
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Member Since: Feb 2019
Location: NJ
Posts: 1,162
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#37
On wedding rings...I used to notice when the therapist would wear her ring set only because you saw the ring from a mile away. It didn’t bother me if she had it on or not but it was just noticeable because of how big and shiny the darn thing was.
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ArtleyWilkins
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Member Since: Oct 2018
Location: USA
Posts: 2,787
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#38
I didn't wear my wedding rings for a few years because I had to take them off with my last pregnancy due to swelling and my hands never did go back in size (nor the rest of my body if the truth be told. LOL!). Took me awhile to remember to find a jeweler, take it in, get it resized, etc.
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ElectricManatee
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Member Since: May 2017
Location: Earth
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#39
My T's ring is gigantic. (I guess it's probably a wedding/engagement combo thing? I know nothing about classy rings since we just got matching titanium bands on Etsy) It must get caught on things all the time.
@velcro003, maybe you just need to try a few different places before you find a good fit. I used to volunteer at this local museum when I was in school. I liked the museum and its mission, but the real reason that I was motivated to go back was that the people there (employees and other volunteers) were always really nice and made me feel welcome. It's so comforting sometimes to have places where you feel like you belong. Maybe you can experiment a little to find somewhere where you feel like that? |
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LostOnTheTrail
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Member Since: Aug 2011
Location: England
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#40
Oh, and found some new watercolour paintbrushes in town...and got You've Got Mail on DVD for £1.
__________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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