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#461
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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#462
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Don't mean to scare you but it could be something serious. I hope you can also convince him to go back. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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#463
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How thoughtful of him. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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#464
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Have you been keeping up to date with your tetanus shots? Not everything will work for everyone. If you don't like mindfulness it's okay to go to a T who doesn't place a lot of emphasis on it. When did you last see new T? __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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#465
Should I see R today?
Against: I don't want to help pay for his next holiday. So could save £40. I want to prove that I can live without him. He laughed when he read the email- but did apologize. I don't have the emotional strength to deal with another rupture especially when the reason is exactly the same as for our other one in october. For: .... __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Aw, congrats!!! |
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#467
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Well, that seems like you have your answer. Unless you can think of something for the "for" column. |
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The thing is I don't know if i'm just the one over exaggerating everything. Is not replying to an email a big thing or am I just making it a big deal because it triggers something in me? It's just an email but it's not just an email. It's about him leaving and me not knowing where he is or being able to contact him. Which was the exact same thing during october too during his last break. I don't think he get's it when he apologized and said he would try to be less unpredictable. I want better care and I know I won't really get that in 50 magical mins. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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#469
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#470
I suspect the email triggers something in you--like maybe you feel abandoned? Like he doesn't care? Which speaks to other feelings you've had in the past. At the same time, it's not *just* about your past, but about your relationship with him as well. Maybe it would be good to have this session, to talk through the email thing more?
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#471
It’s a hard question to answer, Lemon. I hope you come to a solution that feels good to you, and that if you do end up having a session it is healing and useful.
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#472
Back to the Fonagy today (skipping didactics again). I also need to work on a personal statement for an application to a psychoanalytic fellowship—I banged one out a few days ago but my roommate (who is a PhD in English) read it and was very sweetly like, “um, you might want to try again.” I didn’t really put my heart in it, she said. And she’s read some of my writing and liked it, so I know it’s not impossible to gain her approval. (Also I kind of knew deep down that it wasn’t really that thing that makes you go “wow,” which is what I was going for.)
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#473
Oh, last thing: for the grammar experts out there (LT? @@?) what the ever-loving heck is the difference btwn “toward” and “towards?”
ETA: The ever-fantastic EM says that per Grammarly, there isn’t a difference: Toward or Towards | Grammarly |
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Luna's offical mini me.
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#474
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What really draws you in with analysis? Is it for a year? __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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#475
I texted him telling him that I was turning up. Rather now instead of next week 2 days before an exam.
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It’s a year but it isn’t all-consuming—just a weekly lecture and a lot of reading. I’ll still be working part time in the hospital during it. |
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#477
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#478
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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A bit more time, and you'll be done soon. What about also thinking a bit about how far you've come in your own therapy? Oh that sounds like a nice program .I've also thought about learning more about therapy without doing a full specialty. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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#480
I also googled Fonagy and thought it was a place. xD
He's also a prominent professor. Therapy saved a refugee child. Fifty years on, he’s leading a mental health revolution | Society | The Guardian Quote:
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