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Tweaky Dog
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 4,792
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Jan 30, 2020 at 06:05 PM
#101
__________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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 LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Aug 2019
Location: hanging from a cloud
Posts: 3,002
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Jan 30, 2020 at 07:08 PM
#102
T, I need you to tell me that everything will be OK, that I'll be fine. Can you please do that?
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Member
Member Since May 2019
Location: Earth
Posts: 189
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Jan 30, 2020 at 08:57 PM
#103
You're nice and all, but you come across as shallow and superficial. Also, I want to terminate soon instead of worry about going to more sessions and wasting money.
__________________ I like deer with their stick legs and stick antlers |
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Poohbah
Member Since Nov 2017
Location: United States
Posts: 1,332
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Jan 31, 2020 at 09:12 AM
#104
I feel like I’ve been hit with a ton of bricks. Is this what transference is? My head is light, like I’m pleasantly buzzed. I’m not sure I should be feeling this way.
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Jun 2018
Location: Somewhere
Posts: 3,355
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Jan 31, 2020 at 11:02 AM
#105
I have a craving for apple juice.
__________________ Life is hard. Then you die. Then they throw dirt in your face. -David Gerrold |
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Member
Member Since Aug 2018
Location: USA
Posts: 244
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Jan 31, 2020 at 01:55 PM
#106
what are you waiting for?
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Magnet
Member Since Jun 2017
Location: in the garden
Posts: 2,307
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Jan 31, 2020 at 03:10 PM
#107
You keep saying the grief and horror and memory and all of it is like the "eating an elephant" saying, that each time I circle around I'll take another bite and eventually it will be gone.
I'm tired and I don't want to deal with it. Can't I just let it sit in the corner and quietly decompose all on on its own? __________________ Since you cannot do good to all, you are to pay special attention to those who, by accidents of time, or place, or circumstance, are brought into closer connection with you. (St. Augustine) |
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Magnet
Member Since Jun 2017
Location: in the garden
Posts: 2,307
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Jan 31, 2020 at 03:18 PM
#108
P.S. Now I am imagining that conversation, and one of us is bound to say something about the consequences of sharing a room with a rotting elephant carcass.
__________________ Since you cannot do good to all, you are to pay special attention to those who, by accidents of time, or place, or circumstance, are brought into closer connection with you. (St. Augustine) |
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Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Jun 2016
Location: Where the sidewalk ends
Posts: 36,132
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Jan 31, 2020 at 06:27 PM
#109
Oh man do I have a story for you on Tuesday. And you may finally believe me when I tell you people are out to get me.
__________________ Ridin' with Biden |
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Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Jul 2018
Location: CA
Posts: 27,329
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Jan 31, 2020 at 06:29 PM
#110
Dear T: thanks for seeing me tomorrow. Honestly, I don't know exactly what I am going to say. I wonder if you will put it together that I SH-ed so badly after seeing you last Saturday that the ER doc put me IP?
__________________ Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA |
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Grand Member
Member Since Mar 2013
Location: USA
Posts: 876
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Jan 31, 2020 at 07:59 PM
#111
I feel like I need to be done. Either with
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Elder
Member Since Oct 2008
Posts: 7,361
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Jan 31, 2020 at 10:33 PM
#112
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
Posts: 9,692
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Feb 01, 2020 at 04:07 AM
#113
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 Your life is so much more important than a marriage that is no longer working for you. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." 
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
Posts: 9,692
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Feb 01, 2020 at 04:07 AM
#114
Thanks for being my T.
Love S __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing."
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Grand Member
Member Since Jun 2008
Location: WYLTK
Posts: 763
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Feb 01, 2020 at 04:45 AM
#115
i don't know what to say anymore; i don't really know what to do anymore; yet there's so much more i probably should say.......
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 20,735
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Feb 01, 2020 at 07:23 AM
#116
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I agree with this, Summer. 
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Jun 2018
Location: Somewhere
Posts: 3,355
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Feb 01, 2020 at 01:31 PM
#117
Yeah and also your husband is downright abusive and you shouldn't have to die just to get away from him. It's not your fault he's horrible and does the things he does. Marriage shouldn't be a death sentence.
__________________ Life is hard. Then you die. Then they throw dirt in your face. -David Gerrold |
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Magnate
Member Since Apr 2018
Location: UK
Posts: 2,160
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Feb 01, 2020 at 04:31 PM
#118
I hope you are okay, and I wish I could ask you.
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Grand Member
Member Since Mar 2013
Location: USA
Posts: 876
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Feb 01, 2020 at 07:52 PM
#119
Thanks @velcro003 @LonesomeTonight @Lemoncake and @susannahsays
I’m really conflicted because he’s been being super nice these past several days. He seems to go in phases where he’s nice for a couple days or weeks and then not so nice for a couple days/weeks. I won’t go into too much detail so as not to derail this thread, but he’s also finally expressed that he’s willing to go to marriage counseling soon. So I don’t know if I want to give up when it seems he’s willing to try. Anyway, if any of you want more details, let me know and I can pm you. If not that’s alright of course. |
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Magnate
Member Since Feb 2017
Location: North America
Posts: 2,360
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Feb 01, 2020 at 07:54 PM
#120
Dear T,
Are you mad at me? Disappointed? I really hope not. -c |
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