Changing bounderies

I work far more hours than my T, and set aside a few hours after dinner to return client email. I can’t think of a professional who doesn’t. My T emails with me, but I don’t ever email him on his weekly four day weekend. Sometimes he emails me first. It is nice of him not to charge. I don’t agree therapists should have some special status in which email is tragically difficult for them, when the rest of us have to respond to our clients. They get to call an hour 45 minutes .

I had an impasse with my T over some comment he made that really hurt me. I cancelled one session to get my head on straight. We discussed it the next session and I decided to try to stop fighting him and just try to do as I'm told. I am trying to really work hard at getting better.

While I do get annoyed in sessions when he asks me to do something I really don't want to do, I try to swallow my comments and do it anyway. I have to admit that I have seen improvements just in the two weeks that I have been doing this. I don't know how long it will last but I do have an excellent T and I am going to try to trust the process and his skills for the next month or so and where it can take me.

Good luck to you.

Thanks everyone for the replies. It made me reflect on how my expectations might be too high. Looking back at what happened in this weeks session I was trying to determine what upset me so much.. As the title is boundy change this is more what I was referring too.
As I started therapy with my T i specifically asked about emailing knowing how much I tend to rely on emails. My Ts initial answer was 'there are no rules around it'. So I kept sending emails and it was OK. I don't feel like it was ever an overwhelming amount or that they increased or changed in time.. Not more than the actual therapeutic relationship anyway. They did say multiple times I express more in emails than in person and we talked it. But we agreed that we can bring the emails more into session - fine with me. I started last session in unusually ok mood and w talkimg about how things are progressing better and then after a bit of a chit chat he just said 'I've decided not to open you emails until we are in session' so the rest of the time we spend the time with me trying to react to that. This wasn't entirely unexpected because he was hinting in it before. While they came to this conclusion I was actually thinking the opposite the past week reaffirming how much I found the emails helpful.
I felt put on the spot. Uneasy with feeling clearly upset. They didn't act empathically and told me I reacted like i teenager who doesnt have her way. From being happy at the beginning of a session which is unusual I walked out very unsure.
I don't know maybe I just expected to much to start with...