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Apr 06, 2020 at 05:57 PM
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This is a song my ex t played for me in therapy to try to describe feelings and the dynamics of our therapy.
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Apr 06, 2020 at 05:58 PM
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- Hungry Heart
Your sugar-sweet red mouth is sucking all words spherical even in fight your lips won't surrender to mine. At your glowingly hot cheeks I burn my fingers even when you throw me to the ground I think myself a winner. Whatever is happening to my will? you render my will will-less. You are ice; ice cold. My hungry heart is pierced by a bittersweet pain tell me how far, how far, how far, how far do you want to go? My hungry heart is pierced by a bittersweet sword just tell me how far, how far, how far, how far will you go? Your eyes look right through me at somebody else when your hands are touching me they're following a plan. With your rough angel tongue you're penetrating me you hold me tight, what's going on? if I press, too, you're letting go. YouTube |
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Apr 06, 2020 at 06:08 PM
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Did you have any concerns about your therapy with your Ex T ? When looking at the dynamics does it make sense or seem appropriate ? On the surface it would appear a little odd , and that you're questioning it now seems important
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Apr 06, 2020 at 06:12 PM
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I am in the process of a complaint... It's just a small piece of the evidence but I was curious if ppl thought it was fine to play a song like this to their client in discribing the relationship
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Apr 06, 2020 at 06:41 PM
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I would feel pretty confused and disturbed if my therapist sent me this song in reference to our relationship.
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Apr 06, 2020 at 06:50 PM
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To be honest, I feel gas lighted.
I go from... Maybe it's just me and he did nothing wrong. I keep needing reassurance from my current t, because I have been made to feel it's just me. There's lies of omission in my clinical notes, things being twisted or minimised. I feel hopeless sometimes 
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Apr 06, 2020 at 07:36 PM
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Most certainly it’s odd and could be used as evidence of your ex t being unprofessional
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Apr 07, 2020 at 08:44 AM
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That is not appropriate. That seems like something you would send to a lover NOT a client.
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Apr 07, 2020 at 04:58 PM
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Umm. No. Not appropriate (or even a good set of lyrics if truth be told)
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Apr 07, 2020 at 05:25 PM
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When I first saw title, I thought it was going to be the Bruce Springsteen song and thought, "Yeah, that's fine." Then I read the lyrics (completely different song). The end part about the "rough angel tongue penetrating" struck me as particularly sexual and thus inappropriate.
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Apr 07, 2020 at 05:34 PM
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It seems very sexual and not appropriate for therapy. I wouldn't be comfortable with a therapist telling me it described our relationship.
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Apr 07, 2020 at 05:35 PM
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No, no, and no.
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