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Default Apr 07, 2020 at 05:41 PM
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I really don’t want to leave my T but I don’t think I have a choice. I think the wheels are in motion and there is no turning back. Why did I do this to myself? I think I lost my trust in her when she sent me to the hospital and don’t know how open I can be anymore. I didn’t think she hurt me but I guess she did. But I know she had to do it.
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It takes time to build back trust and lots of conversations about it. It's hard but the trust can be rebuilt.

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Default Apr 08, 2020 at 07:31 AM
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On reflection , was it the best thing to do at the time ? There is being cruel to be kind , or it might appear cruel and damage our trust a little , but I think yes , trust can be rebuilt , few things are totally irrevocable on the whole.

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I really don’t want to leave my T but I don’t think I have a choice. I think the wheels are in motion and there is no turning back. Why did I do this to myself? I think I lost my trust in her when she sent me to the hospital and don’t know how open I can be anymore. I didn’t think she hurt me but I guess she did. But I know she had to do it.


I have had 9 diffrent ones and understand how hard it can be

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Default Apr 08, 2020 at 11:33 AM
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By process of elimination I guess I have picked a new T. I will have one more session with old T tomorrow then move on. I have to sign releases so they can talk. This will be a hard transition.
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Default Apr 09, 2020 at 03:34 PM
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Said goodbye to my T. It was hard but she wants an email in a month to update her on how things are going. So I will get at least one more email from her.
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