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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 20,766
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#301
Dear T,
One of the things you said to me about D really resonated. I think we need to talk about it more on Friday. Also, session felt like it went by really fast today. Like, too fast. And I really don't like that shirt you were wearing, but it still ranks slightly above one other shirt you have. Maybe I just like you in darker colors? Love, LT |
LostOnTheTrail, MissUdy, SlumberKitty
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LostOnTheTrail
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Writing my way through...
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: In the desert
Posts: 7,239
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#302
I wish we were talking today. I know, I know, I could have just asked. But I didn't want to because you told me these dates, you didn't ask, and wouldn't you have offered it if you were available? And besides I guess I don't wanna hear "no"... I have done so much thinking in the past week and am ready to talk about it. Even your use of that particular word that starts with c. It was bad enough when you said I was being coy awhile back, but this new c word is even worse than that and I hate it even more. But anyway you know me, I do my thinking through my fingers typing in a word doc, so I'll just email that to you before we start next week.
Since my 'normal' time would have been in 5 minutes, I'm going to finish that story I started last week about Little Art and the shadow monster. |
LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Member Since Oct 2018
Location: the astral plane
Posts: 493
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#303
You told me yesterday that I was important, and I know you meant it in the global sense that everyone is important, but it meant something coming from you.
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ElectricManatee, Lonelyinmyheart, LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Poohbah
Member Since Jan 2020
Location: Somewhere I'm working to leave
Posts: 1,243
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#304
T,
Thank you for staying with me when perhaps most people would walk. |
Lemoncake, SlumberKitty
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
Posts: 9,700
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#305
Just wanted to let you know that I do have good internet connection in Antigua, so I could make today's normal session time.
The old me of 3.5 years ago wouldn't have come back to discuss this and just carried on acting out. You haven't done anything wrong just told me that you were going away. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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atisketatasket
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Writing my way through...
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: In the desert
Posts: 7,239
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#306
why am i awake thinking about you at 1:49 am
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
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#307
Dear T,
Part of me wishes you did have availability today, but part is also somewhat relieved that I won't have to make the decision of whether to see you today instead of tomorrow, then have a longer period between sessions. I appreciate your saying that you could have added a session to your day if it was an emergency, as that makes me think it's something you'd be able to do in the future, too. Love, LT |
ElectricManatee, Lonelyinmyheart, LostOnTheTrail, SlumberKitty
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Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Jun 2016
Location: Where the sidewalk ends
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#308
How long do I have to keep on ignoring your email until I get checked up on.
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Writing my way through...
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: In the desert
Posts: 7,239
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#309
Remember how you said I need to try on the idea of making a big mistake and then being responsible for it? You're right of course. I did make a huge mistake like 10 years ago that contributed to our bankruptcy and yes, we've worked our way back from that. BUT I have not yet forgiven myself. Oh, I take responsibility for it, but that's all I have done, taken responsibility and then stopped there with blaming myself for the entire mess even though my mistake was only a part of it. I don't know how to forgive myself and I'm afraid as hell to make anything but little decisions ever since. So I'm frozen in my fear and will stay stuck here forever if I can't figure out how to forgive myself for that. Things are happening h is wanting to make some financial moves with our savings and I am petrified of it being a mistake. He's a bit pissed at me for not trusting him because he did get us out of that giant hole we were in - 10 years ago when we filed bankruptcy and lost our house, we came out of it with pretty much nothing - except ourselves, our clothes, a few pieces of furniture and our old cars. He even had to sell off his mother's coin collection that he had inherited. And now we have a house and 2 newer cars and a houseful of stuff and we can take little vacations here and there and go out to eat sometimes and we have savings in the bank. We've worked hard together to get to this point. So I need to forgive myself already and trust him that he's got all the angles figured out and is not putting us at risk. Part of me, my logical brain, understands it is not as scary of a thing as my emotional brain is making it out to be.
I really should talk with you about all of this. There's so much in my head right now. I wish we had been able to talk this week. Next Wednesday seems forever away. |
LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Member Since Apr 2017
Location: Parts Unknown
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#310
Dear T,
Last session was incredibly valuable for me and it meant a lot that you mentioned wanting to hug me after my confession... stupid Covid. :P Thank you for being validating and understanding what I needed before I knew I needed it. |
LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Writing my way through...
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: In the desert
Posts: 7,239
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#311
I am still trying to figure out just exactly how I am supposed to find out who or what is at the center of my guilt complex. Has it grown from my lifelong need to be the good little girl and continuously push away my shadow parts? Is that why I have never truly "grown up", because I need those parts that I pushed away and continue to deny in order to grow up?! Damn it why couldn't we talk this week. 15 is stomping petulantly.
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Lemoncake, LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Writing my way through...
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: In the desert
Posts: 7,239
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#312
Why did it take more than 8 freaking years to get to this?!
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Jan 2014
Location: n/a
Posts: 4,819
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#313
T thank you for telling me it is okay to rely on you when I mentioned my fears. Also telling me you support my decisions around medications. You have been such a huge help when the S@<+ hits the fan.
Pdoc thank you for not only returning my call but also spending 40 minutes really talking and listening to me so that we could make a well informed decision on meds. I really do have the best team working with me. If only I still had long term T.😪😭 __________________ |
LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Grand Member
Member Since Mar 2013
Location: USA
Posts: 876
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#314
I think I might need a new therapist
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ElectricManatee, LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Grand Poohbah
Member Since Jan 2017
Location: Here
Posts: 1,731
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#315
You're too beautiful, it's unfair
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Member Since Aug 2019
Location: The World
Posts: 278
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#316
Urgh well that session was a disaster wasn’t it? All of my childish attitude could have been avoided if you would have just said that you cared. Telling me that I need to take responsibility of caring for myself when I said to you I felt alone and like nobody cared about me was not the correct response. I will shut down and refuse to engage effectively and act like a moody teenager, don’t think you were expecting that though were you? I think you’re beginning to see how challenging I am as a client. When you asked whether I was feeling anger and I said no, I was lying. I was beyond furious but why should I bother trying to explain that to you. You did handle the anxiety attack fairly well though. I think I’m probably just trying to stop myself from getting hurt by pulling away and self sabotaging as I know I only have 4 sessions left with you. Might cancel them as I really can’t be bothered with all of this anymore. You’ll be glad to be rid of me anyway.
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Jan 2014
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#317
Today would be your 71st birthday. 😭😭 I am so thankful I was a part of the last 10 of them. Happy Heavenly Birthday.
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chihirochild, LonesomeTonight, LostOnTheTrail, SlumberKitty
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Tweaky Dog
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
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#318
When you asked me what I needed yesterday, the futility of that question made me angry.
What I need at the moment is not available to me. We are doing our best, but all deep breathing really does is take the edge off. __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
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#319
Feel like I told you too much.
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
ArtieTheSequal, SlumberKitty
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Grand Member
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Location: USA
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#320
I hope you email me back and I can calm the **** down
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