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Magnate
Member Since Jul 2013
Location: United States
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#21
I looked my T up so much on Facebook that he showed up on my feed as a someone I might want to be friends with! EEKK. I hope I did show up on his feed.
__________________ When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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Poohbah
Member Since Feb 2014
Location: Upstate NY
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#22
Recently I looked at her Facebook, which I do from time to time, and discovered that she recently got married. I am upset, not that she got married, but that she didn't tell me. I know, technically it's none of my business, but a few weeks ago I thought she was loosening boundaries, and now I see that that isn't the case.
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