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Luna's offical mini me.
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#481
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
Member Since Jun 2011
Location: Milan/Michigan
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#482
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SlumberKitty
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Lemoncake, stopdog
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
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#483
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Hugs, I used to be very bad at breaking up with guys, too. Partly because I didn't want to hurt their feelings. So then I'd end up doing it awkwardly, like over the phone (texting wasn't as big a thing then), and it made it worse, I think (especially as I was 6 months in for a couple of those...though I've also been on the receiving end of phone breakups)... If you are seeing him this weekend, maybe see how you feel when you do? Though I have to say, hoping he was calling to break up isn't an encouraging sign... Please don't stay with someone just because you're afraid no one else will be attracted to you. Stay only because you're enjoying your time with him and like him. I suddenly feel like the old, married woman dispensing wisdom, yikes...at the ripe old age of 43! But I also did quite a bit of dating in the past before settling down and know if it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't. |
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chihirochild, ElectricManatee, Quietmind 2
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Child of a lesser god
Member Since Jun 2015
Location: Tartarus
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#484
Not wanting to be the bad guy kept me with 2ex way too long.
You could also look back in ten years while miserable with J and say “why didn’t I break up with him back then?” |
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underdog is here
Member Since Sep 2011
Location: blank
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#485
Is casual dating something that straight people don't do? I know my community has the lesbian joke about what do lesbians bring to the second date - a uhaul. And I do have some friends that applies to -but I was always a fan of casual dating. I don't understand the eagerness to either immediately couple up closely or drop the person. I would understand if you just disliked him, but otherwise - can't you just date him and have fun without getting all wadded up about what is going to happen in 10 years?
__________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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underdog is here
Member Since Sep 2011
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#486
__________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Magnate
Member Since Feb 2017
Location: North America
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#487
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unaluna
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Writing my way through...
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: In the desert
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#488
Close, but his was "Well excuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuse me!" Well, excuse me.mpg - YouTube He is a kick-*** banjo player for sure!! Last edited by ArtieTheSequal; Aug 22, 2020 at 04:15 PM.. |
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Tweaky Dog
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
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#489
__________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
Breaking Dawn, SlumberKitty
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Breaking Dawn, unaluna
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Writing my way through...
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Location: In the desert
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#490
I hadn't heard this one! Thanks. My favorite skit of his is King Tut.
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Tweaky Dog
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
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#491
And that's a new one on me. Thank you.
__________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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underdog is here
Member Since Sep 2011
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#492
My favorite was The Death of Socrates
Steve Martin-Death Of Socrates - YouTube __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Writing my way through...
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: In the desert
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#493
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oh yes, that is a good one as well!! |
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
Member Since Jun 2011
Location: Milan/Michigan
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#494
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Lemoncake, SlumberKitty
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Poohbah
Member Since Jan 2020
Location: Somewhere I'm working to leave
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#495
I've started teaching myself how to cook.
T is being supportive about my grieving. Tldr: My best friend / family of choice sibling left after saying a lot of calculated (?) hurtful words. |
Breaking Dawn, chihirochild, Lemoncake, LonesomeTonight, LostOnTheTrail, Polibeth, SlumberKitty, unaluna
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Writing my way through...
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Location: In the desert
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#496
Diabetic kitty tried to jump up on our bed last night and he couldn't make it and fell. Poor guy, I feel so bad for him. We're getting the xrays done as soon as they can schedule it. He has always come up on our bed during the night and it breaks my heart that he probably won't try again. H went and found him and brought him up there and he layed down and started purring as soon as we started petting him. I'm ordering a ramp from chewy.com so he can still come up there on his own. We'll make this work!
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Breaking Dawn, LonesomeTonight, LostOnTheTrail, SlumberKitty, unaluna
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Poohbah
Member Since Mar 2014
Location: PNW
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#497
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Breaking Dawn, SlumberKitty
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chihirochild, LonesomeTonight, Quietmind 2
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Magnate
Member Since Feb 2017
Location: North America
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#498
God, I feel like crap on toast.
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ArtieTheSequal, Breaking Dawn, LonesomeTonight, LostOnTheTrail, NP_Complete, SlumberKitty, unaluna
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
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#499
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chihirochild
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Always in This Twilight
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Location: US
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#500
Survived awkward conversation with Dr. T about financial stuff. He's willing to reduce my fee a bit so that I can keep seeing him 3 times a week for the next 2 months. Was a small compromise from what I initially asked for, but I'm good with it. I have to start making a car payment next month, so I figured I'd need to cut back to twice a week, but figured would be worth asking him. I felt bad about it, as I'm already paying a slightly reduced fee ($150 instead of $175), but he's said he charges some college student clients $50. So, new rate is $150 for first session, then $125 each for the other 2 sessions. He initially made it through the end of October, then said he'd switch it to the day after Election Day in early November, as he imagines that will relieve a lot of stress for everyone (we have similar political views). It takes a lot of weight off my shoulders knowing I can stay with this schedule for another 2 months, especially as D will be starting school with virtual learning on Sept. 8. Note that my insurance reimburses 60% (he's out of network), so I'm not paying that all out of pocket, but insurance also takes about 2 months to give us payments.
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