How to make video sessions comforting?

I just read an interesting piece on how having sessions from bed might be interpreted. I found it interesting because when we used to have remote sessions due to illness or traveling, I automatically thought of having from bed because bed was where I was most likely to not be disturbed and where I felt the safest, I guess. The article went into taking the therapist to bed as in erotic transference. I guess on one hand they have a point around emotional and physical intimacy... the bed being a place where for most, is where intimacy occurs and therapy is intimate (well my kind is).

There might have even been a part of it with my T of having her tuck me in.. in that motherly transference way.

However, with covid after like the 2nd or 3rd visit, I decided I didn't like how I looked leaning back on my pillows so I found another place in my house - my gym. I wonder if that means I'm less erotically connected? . I know the video sessions are not working for me at all and I'm trying to decide when to stop therapy all together since there doesn't seem to be an end any time soon in my area and with my T. I don't know, maybe I need to take it back to the bed ... bedroom