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underdog is here
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#21
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Poppycock and balderdash __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Grand Magnate
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#22
I don't feel like saying something to acknowledge that he's going through a difficult time is necessarily taking care of him. It feels more like a human compulsion to say "hey, I see you and I'm sorry you're having a rough time". But then I'm torn because am I overstepping boundaries by acknowledging this? I feel like kind of an asshole for not recognizing that he's also a human being and telling him that I feel compassion about his situation, because that is how I actually feel.
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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#23
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Child of a lesser god
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And, no, Poppycock and Balderdash are the guys Hamlet kills. You know, “Poppycock and Balderdash are dead”? |
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underdog is here
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#25
Well, we can do you blood and love without the rhetoric, and we can do you blood and rhetoric without the love, and we can do you all three concurrent or consecutive. But we can't give you love and rhetoric without the blood. Blood is compulsory. They're all blood, you see.
__________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Writing my way through...
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Writing my way through...
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#27
Poppycock and Balderdash, and the dish ran away with the spoon.
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underdog is here
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"yes you still get an F" "We lost the appeal and they are going to execute you" "No intubation for my ward and I will have to talk to the family and tell them X is going on hospice" and so on I did not need to pay to practice having them with a therapist. __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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#29
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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#30
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SlumberKitty
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Child of a lesser god
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#31
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Luna's offical mini me.
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#32
I won £25 again this month so £50 in two months with Premium Bonds!
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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#33
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__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Tweaky Dog
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#34
Wow, Cake. I've had Premium Bonds for seven years, and not won anything in that time.
__________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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#35
Signed up for a short developmental psych course on a whim (it’s free for me since I’m doing the psychoanalytic fellowship) and the first lecture last night was fascinating—watching videos of parents and children interacting and interpreting their speech and behaviour. Super interesting!
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Luna's offical mini me.
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#36
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I'm dreaming of one of the bigger prizes. I've looked at the previous winners and someone won one of the million pound prizes with only £17 invested and another won with £5900. Someone on another forum I know won £1000 last month. I've also heard of someone else winning £10,000 with £100 bought as a gift from their parent. I like the fact that every pound is 100% safe and you can withdraw it at anytime ( might have to wait up to a week) and it offers the same thrill of playing the lottery without the risk of losing your money. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." Last edited by Lemoncake; Nov 03, 2020 at 06:25 AM.. |
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Luna's offical mini me.
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Glad you enjoyed it. The other thread inspired me to look up psychoanalytic training in the UK. Will you also be required to see an analyst which I'm guessing your current T isn't? __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Tweaky Dog
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#38
Communicating over email is hard. I've had a rough few days since my most recent session, and just sent R an email. Saying that my feelings make me want to run away is not the same as saying I want to leave therapy, right?
__________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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Magnate
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#39
As usual, I agree with Lemon. I say whatever I want to say to my T and let her figure out what to do with it. Usually if I were expressing concern about something about her, she would thank me for caring and it would be a nice little moment and then we'd move on to something else.
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Magnate
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#40
I’d have to see an analyst if I went further along in training but I’m still not sure if I’m going to do that.
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