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Nov 02, 2020 at 10:26 PM
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__________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Grand Magnate
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Nov 02, 2020 at 10:28 PM
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I don't feel like saying something to acknowledge that he's going through a difficult time is necessarily taking care of him. It feels more like a human compulsion to say "hey, I see you and I'm sorry you're having a rough time". But then I'm torn because am I overstepping boundaries by acknowledging this? I feel like kind of an asshole for not recognizing that he's also a human being and telling him that I feel compassion about his situation, because that is how I actually feel.
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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Nov 02, 2020 at 10:35 PM
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 I can say that cuz i practiced having difficult conversations in t. |
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Nov 02, 2020 at 10:50 PM
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 And, no, Poppycock and Balderdash are the guys Hamlet kills. You know, “Poppycock and Balderdash are dead”? |
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underdog is here
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Nov 02, 2020 at 10:54 PM
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Well, we can do you blood and love without the rhetoric, and we can do you blood and rhetoric without the love, and we can do you all three concurrent or consecutive. But we can't give you love and rhetoric without the blood. Blood is compulsory. They're all blood, you see.
__________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Writing my way through...
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Nov 02, 2020 at 11:01 PM
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*Artie has already jotted down 'rhoticity' 
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Nov 02, 2020 at 11:02 PM
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Poppycock and Balderdash, and the dish ran away with the spoon.
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underdog is here
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Nov 02, 2020 at 11:06 PM
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"yes you still get an F" "We lost the appeal and they are going to execute you" "No intubation for my ward and I will have to talk to the family and tell them X is going on hospice" and so on I did not need to pay to practice having them with a therapist. __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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Nov 02, 2020 at 11:22 PM
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(Who's got Ack on their card?) |
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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Nov 02, 2020 at 11:23 PM
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Nov 02, 2020 at 11:32 PM
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There should be a sd/una agree square for difficulty. |
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Nov 03, 2020 at 03:22 AM
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I won £25 again this month so £50 in two months with Premium Bonds!
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." 
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Nov 03, 2020 at 03:28 AM
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__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing."
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Nov 03, 2020 at 04:06 AM
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Wow, Cake. I've had Premium Bonds for seven years, and not won anything in that time.
__________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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Nov 03, 2020 at 05:40 AM
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Signed up for a short developmental psych course on a whim (it’s free for me since I’m doing the psychoanalytic fellowship) and the first lecture last night was fascinating—watching videos of parents and children interacting and interpreting their speech and behaviour. Super interesting!
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Nov 03, 2020 at 05:53 AM
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I'm dreaming of one of the bigger prizes. I've looked at the previous winners and someone won one of the million pound prizes with only £17 invested and another won with £5900. Someone on another forum I know won £1000 last month. I've also heard of someone else winning £10,000 with £100 bought as a gift from their parent. I like the fact that every pound is 100% safe and you can withdraw it at anytime ( might have to wait up to a week) and it offers the same thrill of playing the lottery without the risk of losing your money. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing."
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Nov 03, 2020 at 05:56 AM
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 Glad you enjoyed it. The other thread inspired me to look up psychoanalytic training in the UK. Will you also be required to see an analyst which I'm guessing your current T isn't? __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing."
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Nov 03, 2020 at 06:40 AM
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Communicating over email is hard. I've had a rough few days since my most recent session, and just sent R an email. Saying that my feelings make me want to run away is not the same as saying I want to leave therapy, right?
__________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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Nov 03, 2020 at 06:49 AM
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Nov 03, 2020 at 06:51 AM
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