What is it with younger men hehehe!!

I'm only 24 years old and a student at a community college where the ages of students varies. I continue to get approached by guys who just graduated from high school or guys who are just not mature just yet.

Is there something about me that just attract these types of guys. I'm really easy to talk to and comfortable to meet new people. I wouldn't mind dating someone who was 2 years younger then me but they must at least have a mature outlook on life.

Instead theres a 22 year old guy who's been wanting to get to know me over 3-4 semesters thats about 2 years, and still he acts as though he's still in high school. He doesn't even care to know how to drive, loves bmx bikes, doesn't have a job.

He saids that he majoring in business so that he can go into the bmx business. When I say he's still like a high school grad, he doesn't care to groom himself, he's just one of those guys who doesn't mind skippy a shower for a day or two, puts on whatever is laying around and if he feels like it he'll bush his teeth. LoL That attitude is alright, he just doesn't care and relax. He could be everyone's buddy.

I am physically attracted to him, when I see him on a good day when he self-grom himself. Is that just bad of me to say?! But come on now, I need to meet someone who can stand on their own two feet. I enjoy talking to the guy but I just get pass all the other things.

I go out of my way to make sure I don't lead him on in any way and to make sure he knows that I only want to be friends. I don't let our conversation to get too personal.

I hear it over and over again that I look so young, as though I'm stil in high school. I dont know how many times people have asked me to show them my ID just to see a rated R movie and to ask if I have my guardian with me. After some time I just laugh at it. I suppose I just have great skin, at least when I'm 50 I'll look like im 30 LoL!!!

So what do you think what is that with some guys who are just not in that mature part in their life and would think it would be attractive to me?

All in all the old sayings still stand true today.... Women mature faster than Males, so if you are waiting for the perfect guy as far as with in the mature status of being, you might have to wait until they turn oh say 30 (something).... hang in there and give the guys a chance - for two year diff is no big deal in my book. And be PROUD that you look younger than you are.... you will appreciate it when you turn thirty and then fourty.

Good Luck....

LoVe,
Rhapsody -

It's hard to find any man mature enough... All of them will always be a little boy inside! But seriously, I think Rhapsody is definately right... girls mature quicker than boys, but it evens out as you get older.

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TanyaGrave said:
It's hard to find any man mature enough... All of them will always be a little boy inside! But seriously, I think Rhapsody is definately right... girls mature quicker than boys, but it evens out as you get older.

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YES....... I once heard someone say that if we (the women) can hang in there until they (the men) are around 52 then it will get better, for they greatly calm down and mature beyond our wildest dreams - gotta love it.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -

P.S.
I got 11 year more years to go - lol.

52?????
I think i'll get married at 53 then!

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TanyaGrave said:
52?????
I think i'll get married at 53 then!

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No No don't wait until then.... he just has to be 53 - YOU can be younger - teehee.

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LoVe,
Rhapsody - ((( hugs )))

Hey I have a Younger man and he is GREAT! I am spoiled rotten. But I had to kiss a lot of toads first and get pickier. He's 40! He must of chased me for a year before i caught on that he was trying to date me. Every now and then I try to rub the dust off his eyes but he just laughs and says he's here for good.

Question:

Maybe he acts young *as far as you have seen him*, but (and I'm sorry if I missed this) sitting down and having a coffee or dinner with him - what's he like then?

in my experience of males in their early 20s they often don't do so well in the first impressions game. Maybe nerves or inexperience at hitting on a chick properly.

as for the age thing i have got ID'd in the supermarket buying wine and i'm 28 (our drinking age is 18 here) so i understand looking young (although in my work clothes i dont think i do lol ... ah well it's a compliment )