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Legendary
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Oct 19, 2016 at 04:44 PM
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I have completely turned around to a positive in my marriage.
You all have heard me complain and SH over our problem for a long time. Amazingly, now that we are in therapy, my husband has been initiating sex this week. (Actually now he is going overboard with it). I am feeling great, healthy, normal, loving! As much as this humiliates me, it's true how his deprivation of sex sent me to the moon in hysteria. In a week went from smashing his records in hate and anger to love and contentment. I don't know what to make of myself mentally and emotionally. I have been given diagnoses of depression, PTSD, and Borderline traits all related to my emotions over this dysfunctional relationship. If this new normal maintains, will I stay feeling good? Wow. __________________ "And don't say it hasn't been a little slice of heaven, 'cause it hasn't!" . About Me--T |
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Oct 20, 2016 at 01:40 AM
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Just live in the moment and enjoy it for whatever it is for the time being
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Oct 20, 2016 at 03:49 AM
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 You might feel good for a really long time! After coming out of depression in April, I have had a high sex drive and it has not changed. H says "It's a good thing I am such a lusty guy" and I agree. One of the reasons (there are many), I probably chose him is that we both have high sex drives. But I don't enjoy it quite as much when I am depressed. I am so glad I am no longer feeling depressed. So don't be humiliated, sex is a way to express love and joy. It's one of the good things about being married. I am so happy for you.
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