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Also a question - your first love was not your wife? |
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You have just answered it!
Also a question - your first love was not your wife? Correct she was not my first love. (But I still loved her in a different way) My first love was when I was 21 and she was 18 and 6mth baby girl (Emma) we had an argument over something trivial and we split up (Thinking for a few day`s) BUT her mother had other idea`s! `Anyway` What am saying is I loved her then (No crush) And if she came to me now and asked me back (Even after all those years`) I would gladly say YES! __________________ My home is my sanctuary and also my prison. |
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Love is a chemical reaction. No oxytocin no love.
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Love is a verb!
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for example showing love could be going to work every day, paying the bills and putting a roof over your families head. and may not demonstrative. It might be doing laundry and cooking food. I am open to any ideas on this. thank you for your question |
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What we typically do is give what we usually expect to receive or desire to. Sometimes it's not that way but a lot of the time it is. some people are encouragers, some are givers, others are caretakers, etc... each of us has a varied number of ways to give love to others there isn't really a finite definition of it. |
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parenthetical to this...for me I have a few issue with altrusim. meaning I may do something and expect nothing in return. That is not a problem. But when someone does something for me, I may not return it. which then causes me an unintended problem. thank you. |
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I once heard someone say something I think says a lot, "What it takes to get your baby is what it takes to keep them."
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I think the bible answered that question, love is patient, kind, long suffering.
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"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." |
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Love is seeing the good in someone no matter how much harm they have done to themselves.
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I would tend to agree but with different words. I would say it's seeing the value in someone whether at the time their behavior is good or not. Because at any point in our lives we can make mistakes, offend, do "bad" things but this is not the whole of our selves, and being able to love another person just as fallible as I am means accepting that we are all both good and bad at times but always valuable.
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I would advise looking up the 5 love languages. It goes into how people like to give and receive affection and can be used as a piece to that puzzle
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